Are you an optimist?

Honestly... I think you need to read AND watch the video of The Secret. But dont just watch it just for the sake of it. You need to watch the video more than once and read the book. Practice what they are talking about. Dont worry about what your family and friends are saying the info they give is valuable. Believe me it works. Good luck :)

well, sometimes i also think negative but it's always result to positive. But now, i don't think so much i just tell myself that whatever happens it has a reason....is that being optimistic?

Well to be honest, I think I'm more of a negative thinker. I think since I was a child I was like that. Always thinking of what's bad or worse to happen. There are days that I can be really positive and there are days where I just want to pity myself and cry. It's really hard to learn how to change your way of thinking but it's not impossible. I think I'm already on my way to be completely positive about anything. I've been reading a lot about positive thinking books. I'm already fighting and discipling myself to think positive all the time. I have an advice for you if you want, try reading or watching the secret movie by rhonda byrne and how to heal your life by louise hay. These are the books or movies that helped me recover or change my perception and attitude. You can also watch the study course of louise hay in you tube. Just search for tpstv. I know you can do it! If I can do it so can you! :) Good luck to you. :)