Women doing the courting and chasing

I'm a girl and yet It's so hard for me to let the guy I like to know that I have feelings for him. I don't know but it's hard for me to show my feelings. I guess it's because I believe guys should do the act first. It's the norm but I couldn't say if it's like that now.

hi chrysz! i don't think there's nothing wrong with what you did. there's nothing to be ashamed about. maybe its a bit embarrassing but you were just showing your feelings. what's bad is that the guy took advantage of it. tch. he got awfully conceited. i haven't done anything like that maybe because i'm chicken.^__^;; but i do consider chasing a guy if ever i really really really like him. so far, the guys that i have really really really liked, also liked me so they did the chasing. i think there's nothing wrong with letting a guy know that you like him. but we only have to be careful not to be taken advantage by the guy. having said this, i think we should carefully get to know the guy's personality before expressing our feelings to him. we should be sure that he's a kind of guy that he will never take advantage of a girl's feelings. ^__^

Hi chrysz..I courted a guy once when I was in college..it feels good to release the feeling and i was just lucky that guy is very respectful..nice memories..Im happy with my husband now i wish he found someone too...lol

I never reached that point, I was only up to the point of looking at him from afar and see him there and feel that great happiness. I dont have enough courage to do what you have done. For ten years I just kept the feeling, that wonderful feeling of being in love. I dont I have to move on and grow up coz hteres no point of hoping that someday it will be us. It would also cause me a heart break and its enought that he knows that he is my crush. I dont want him to court me just for the sake of courtship, coz for me its the guy who should do the first move. I dont think if im being too idealistic about it but I would rather love in silence than chase him for love.

This is really rampant nowadays. Some of my friends would even tell their own stories how they chase their current partners. It sounds strange but society has accepted this kind of courting lately. The world has changed.

I cant really imagine myself courting a guy because Im really not that showy and Im a shy person. So, if I really like a guy I just talk to him- casual conversation. that's it. I'll get lucky if he would also became my friend. I still go for guys who courts me. But the thing is, me and my boyfriend our in our 6 years, so every time we have petty quarrels or we broke up sometimes, I do the compromise and i run after him. its because I really love him. So, I think if girls would run after a guy the girl might have been really in love.

Sorry, I was born in 1896, so courting guys is a no-no for me, or maybe I was too much of a coward when it comes to those things or probably I would not be able to stand it if my feelings were not appreciated. So there. I just keep things to myself to prevent annoying complications.