Who Am I Going to Pick?
By k8lyn07
@k8lyn07 (72)
Philippines
5 responses
@jameskempton (145)
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29 Mar 08
Follow your heart. If you love the total stranger most and feel that you can trust them as much or more than your childhood sweetheart, I would go for the total stranger, but when you say total stranger, it sounds like you have just met them and maybe don't know all their good and bad points enough to be sure?
@k8lyn07 (72)
• Philippines
29 Mar 08
i know i love the other person but. . . i don't want to hurt the feelings of my childhood sweetheart because there also comes the point that i loved him for the past several years. . . if im going to pick the person i loved, my childhood sweetheart is going to be hurt. . . but if i choose my childhood sweetheart, the other person would be also hurt because he already confess that he also liked me. . . what should i do ? who should i pick? any ways , who ever i pick from both of them, someones is going to be hurt. . . isn't it? how could i pass this without hurting anyone? but i know thats impossible, because there is no love that is "pain-free" am i right?
@jameskempton (145)
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29 Mar 08
If there is something that made you love your childhood sweetheart less over time, have you discussed the issues with him? Maybe he doesn't realise if he is doing something that perhaps makes you feel less loved than you used to? It may be possible to rekindle your love for your childhood sweetheart, and from a trust point of view he is a safer bet than a stranger potentially. You are right though, someone has to get hurt. Think back to the good times with your childhood sweetheart. Is there something worth saving that could be rekindled? I hope this helps, but please don't let me influence your decision, as I think that you should take time to think it over and make your own decision. I hope it goes well for you.
@chiyosan (30181)
• Philippines
30 Mar 08
When we are young and in love we vowed to never love anyone else again, we think that the one we loved wen our hearts are young is the only one for us and that no one will ever come close... i guess that is all part of past... When you move on to another place, meet new people, there are those we leave behind, maybe including the promise you made... Does this person, your childhood sweetheart still feels the same for you with all his heart?
If you meet someone else and made you fall for that person and you are confused as to whether to return to your past love or choose the new one... i would only ask you to answer it by deciding on which will make you happy. do not feel guilty about anything. just think of your own happiness. if it makes you happy, no regrets whatsoever.. then that should be your choice.
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
29 Mar 08
Well, I have watched movies that either a stranger or chilhood sweetheart wins the heart. so, i cant tell from my movie experience.
however, i prefer the childhood sweetheart since you know and understand each other from a long time, life would be easier than with stranger.
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
29 Mar 08
Go with the person you love the most. Going with your childhood friend as a promise is similar as forcing yourself. You can also be together forever with him by being continuing being his best friend. So choose what you really want.
