Wow.

dear daababy we are both new hand,from your point.i hope communicate each other.as you said,i think you have to observate a few days,then decide again.if you don't mind,you can put me into your friend's list.i come from china.

Welcome to Mylot, take your time with the person, don't rush into anything yet, let him call you more. You will know if he is the one for you.

Oh girlfriend, if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't have had such a track record in finding the scum of the earth as a spouse. Only you yourself are going to know if he's right for you. But, my honest sound advice to you is this: spend as much time as you can with him. Get to know the ins and outs...what makes him tick and what ticks him off. My past marriages didn't turn out because the man I married was not the man I saw in a few years time. Then again, it's because I've placed my children's happiness ahead of my own. If they were being abused or unhappy, then mama ain't happy.

you'll have to do it the hard way. Spend time with him and keep your eyes and ears open. Best of Luck!