What can I do?
By jacksome
@jacksome (30)
China
March 30, 2008 5:20am CST
Today morning,the girl I love sent a message to tell me that she is willing to be my girlfriend!
That is an exciting news!And then I phoned to her,but you know,I was so excited that I can't say a word!After that,I find a problem that I don't know what to do for her and how to do something for her!Because we are far away from each other(we go into the different colleges) ,so we usually comunicate with the mobilephone and this is my first time,I don't know what and how to do next.
Friends here,can you tell me something?
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32 responses
@smacksman (6053)
•
30 Mar 08
First - welcome to Mylot. I hope you have as much fun here as I do.
Now to your question.
The most important thing is to just be yourself. Don't try to be like a film star - remember they only have to read a script.
Of course you are excited, who wouldn't be, so just say as much.
BUT, don't go over the top and start talking marriage and children! Whooo! That will frighten her off.
Just have a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship for a while. ie. be friends. Let the true love build slowly over the months.
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
30 Mar 08
Just Go talk to her and give her a red rose. That is all you have to do.
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@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
30 Mar 08
know some of her weaknesses. in that way, you'll melt her heart and even love you more even though you're far w/ each other. and also, always keep in touch w/ her. tell her the things that you are doing right now, and if you're going somewhere, it is better to inform her
@xialinye (1403)
• China
1 Apr 08
"know some of her weknesses" Rhane says...
it's pretty good...i really appreciate it...you can totally totally melt her heart and she will fall in love with you...
her weakness,something to melt her heart,it's the most important part of asking sb out...lol
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
31 Mar 08
First of all, congratulations for your newly found relationship. I hope that it all works out for you. I have a few tips that I hope will help you to become a bit more confident.
1. She's yours. Half of it is already done, she accepts you as you, be yourself.
2. Call her every other night until the two of you become comfortable with one another. No matter if you called her every night as friends, only call every other night so that you do not seem over obsessive. Some girls do not appreciate it.
3. Since you are far away, send her roses or candies or even have a pizza delivered to her (only if she wants it!)
4. Plan a time that each of you can get away from college life atleast on a monthly or bimonthly basis depending on the distance between you two are.
Good luck on your relationship!
@smileyangel (10)
• Canada
30 Mar 08
Hi!
First things first : listen to your heart!! If you do like her, well go talk to her!! There's nothing more relevant and comforting than a good talk!
@7raphael7 (12)
• China
31 Mar 08
i am a girl.i think you can take advantage of spare time to appointment with her.You can give her a surprise.maybe a red rose or any other sweet words and honeyed phrases.Sometimes the last suggest is better than first.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
30 Mar 08
because it's your first time to have a relationship, the shyness and awkward feelings are understandable, but if you want to make your relationship last you need to overcome the shyness. long distance relationship is not easy, i've been through that experience and i will tell you, few distant relationship survive so if you want to be included in the few, you need to make a move.
@phxautopatrs (321)
• China
30 Mar 08
wa o ! it's really good news ! i think sent your GF some gift and to chose a nice day and ask her out ! good luck!
@peierlin (57)
• China
30 Mar 08
Your situation is similar with mine. My boyfriend and I are in the different colleges too. At the time we became lovers, we also couldn't see each other and had to talk no the phone. Don't be nervous, just talk as you used to. What changes is that you can now talk to her every day as you wish. Also, you can visit her at the weekend with a gift as it is the first time. We meet twice a month. Just let her feel your sincere heart and feel that you are caring for her.
@ringdove (53)
• China
30 Mar 08
Since your are far away from your girlfriend. You can make a call to her everyday. And also you can send a gift to her via courier. It's just a suggestion. You should do the things what she likes.
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
31 Mar 08
just give her a surprise visit in her place with a lovely red roses or box of chocolate, girl love surprise & romantic style then invite her for dinner or try to walk with her in the sea side... wishyou luck
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
31 Mar 08
Take her to dinner and bring her some flowers. A romantic movie would be good. Just go slow, make it a simple dinner first, and nothing too complicated, but I know she would appreciate something like a red rose. It looks as if you are going to the next level. The best of luck to both of you!
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
31 Mar 08
It's so great to be in love, jacksome! You really don't have to say anything special when you talk to your girl, just tell her how pleased you are that she wants to be your girl; talk about interests you might have in common such as music, movies, sports; and if your budget will allow you could send her flowers. That goes over big with any girl!
@shuangshuang (28)
• China
31 Mar 08
I and my boyfriend are in the different colleges,and what we can do is calling everyday and going to the other's college in the festivals or weekend.It's OK.We love each other very much.Trust me,distance will make you love each other more!
@Guardian208 (1095)
• United States
31 Mar 08
Welcome to myLot.
Relax... Don't get so excited that you stop being yourself. Remember, she already likes YOU. So be yourself. She may be just as excited to be your girlfriend.
Be yourself and speak to her often and things will go well.
Good luck my friend.
@chenhualong123 (69)
• China
31 Mar 08
just do it
"I Love you not because who you are,but because who I an when we are together"
I like this sentense and send it to you