why marriage is so hard ?

Marriage is not hard if couples give and take, be more tolerate and most of all give some respect to your spouse. Some people expect a perfect marriage. In actual there is no such thing as perfect marriage and so is perfect human being. Just like we need to work in order to survive, we need to work hard in order for a marriage to survive and have a happy ending.

Marriage is not hard at all. Don't think like that. It is just a matter of adjustment and a little patiencce. You have to have the right person with you. One thing you should always understand is that both are born and brought up in different environments. They would have different values in life and different ethics which his / her parents would have taught. At first when you get together you have to try and understandthe person for the face value. you can have talks and be friends with eachother trying to understand each other. Then when you get married you can carry on from where you left. You need not think married life will be hard. You can live a happy and properous life, if you can understand and respect each other. All the best

who told you marriage is so hard, all the things depends on you,, and every partnership have same problem, and its your responsibility. you can make it full of joy. think positive. each and every partnership depends on faith, as you think marriage is just a partnership.

life is never perfect, but I don't expect a legal contract to make my happy, loving, long term relationship into something hard and unpleasant. the following day we will be the same two people, who love each other, are best friends, companions. none of that will be lost because of a marriage certificate.

Marriage shouldn't be hard at all. If you are with the right person. I couldn't imagine bing married to anyone that wasn't my best friend.

i never think marriage is easy.to find one's mr.right is much more difficult than a job.i regard it as the largesttest gamble in one's life.coz you can change your job if you are not satisfied with it but you can't change your husband or break your marriage easily. you have to spend the whole life with your husband whom you may have only known for a short time compared to it.so most of us are taking a risk on marriage.