love triangle

Philippines
April 1, 2008 8:22am CST
My best friend is crushing on this guy I like. But the guy called me up and told me he likes me! I can't tell hi the way I feel 'cause i'd hate to ruin my 5 year friendship with my best friend. Help me how can I handle this situation???
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5 responses
diansinta
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 08
Honestly it is complicated when you two are falling in love with the same guy. But try to be honest with your friend and tell the truth. You two cant snicking around forever soon or later she will know about it and judge you as a traitor for not telling her about him and you.
flip_flop_lollipop
@flip_flop_lollipop (97)
• Singapore
1 Apr 08
i agree with diansinta on this one. I think you should talk to your friend first. Sort it out between the both of you before any one of you approaches the guy. Hope everything'll work out fine for you. :)
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ghellebeduya
@ghellebeduya (42)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
It is really complicated for me as this feelings are new to me. I really like the guy but I can't ruin my friendship with my best friend. Well maybe your right I have to forget him I am still young and I can still can find someone more better than him. Thanks!
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diansinta
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 08
Good for you! There are many Handsome men out there waiting. I got theory why 2 best friend can falling in love with only one person,... They are always together everywhere, sharing thoughs, clothes, foods, drinks,..the bond is so close so that 2 of them share the same aura. You 2 got to have more friends to break the bond but not the friendship.
rombi001
@rombi001 (941)
•
10 Apr 08
If you really care about this guy you should first settle things with your friend because friendships are based on honesty and trust. I'm sure she will get over it... If you think that she won't maybe its better to wait until she gets over him first then take things further...
ayou82
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
1 Apr 08
You like the guy then tell your friend that he likes you that much more than your friend and its not you who is going to decide on that it is the guy who like you and theres nothing she can do about it. Nothing to worry about..
rhane7315
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
you should better tell the truth to your best friend so that she might not get hurt if she finds out that on you first. it would hurt her more if she knows this kind of thing from other person rather than you
suganrekh
@suganrekh (264)
• India
4 Apr 08
be frank with the guy about your friend and your friend about the guy- 1st option Don't tell anything or discuss with this guy to your friend move with the guy as per your wish if he is really eligible he may be a flirt also if you are Indian avoid & marry the one your parents seeks if you are other just go on as per your culture but see to that he is a good one divert your friend to another guy-- 2nd option Both of you friends avoid him -- 3rd option