Do you feel worthy?

Forgive me but I really don't know why or how you feel that you won't be doing your share. As a full time mother, you are very likely to do more than your fair share of work. Maybe you won't be helping the family financially but you will be doing the physical work of caring for the child. No good full time parent would ever think they are not doing enough by looking after their own children. My partner works and gets paid for a "full time" job. I am full time mum to my kids. Compare his 30-hour WEEK to a 24-hour DAY. Who is working harder do you think? I feel my partner does nowhere near enough. Yes, he goes to work and earns money to pay the rent. He does that 30 hours a week and then has plenty of leisure time. He has breaks at work and has the opportunity to go out whenever he likes, even if it's just nipping to the pub for an hour after work. The working partner generally gets the better deal. You are doing the right thing by choosing to look after your child. You will be working really hard and I hope your husband will appreciate YOU, never mind the other way around!

Oh Sweetie! We must educate you on what it takes for you to be a stay at home mom. Your day never ends! From the time you wake up until the time you go to bed you are busy. Whether you are cooking, cleaning, feeding, wiping, or calming a crying baby, you are working. At first you may seem like you are going to go crazy because the sleepless nights add to the stress, but it it all worth it. Your husband will work all day outside the house and expect to get some quite time when he gets home. This you'll give him because you feel he deserves it. You are doing more than your share. your job will be 24/7/365. No vacation, no sick leave. Children don't understand when you're sick. they still need taken care of. So, don't feel like you won't be doing your share. You'll see all too soon!