will you agree your boy or girl awaly go home at mid of the night ?
By phxautopatrs
@phxautopatrs (321)
China
April 1, 2008 7:42pm CST
you know nowdays everything are attract our eyes! we awaly to forget the time to go home !when we feel o,it's time i should go home but it's already middle of the night !so when we go home parent start to give us a "lesson"!
4 responses
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
2 Apr 08
I don't have childrens yet but if i did have, I wouldn't be happy with this. However, I wouldn't mind if it's a friend's party and that she wants to have fun with her or his friends once in a while. But I won't be comfortable with the idea that my child is still outside really late. Parents give a lesson because they care about you. There is school to attend and if the child would go out everynight and come back late, she won't be successful in the futur.
@phxautopatrs (321)
• China
2 Apr 08
yes,your opinion is totally all the parents will thinking like that ! but your kids awaly think he already growing and he should have own life.this also the promble we should face !
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
2 Apr 08
When I was a teenage, I used to be like you as well. Wanted to at some places, try stuff, just do anything witout being bothered. As i became older, I realized that i was just a kid who couldn't earn monney on my own. If you really want to live life on your own, then maybe should be renting an appartment or something like that. I dunno how old you are. Maybe you should get yourself a decent job and show your parent how responsible you are. goodluck :)
@mic_tcs (264)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 08
For me, I will restrict the time for them to go out. Or I will just tell them that they must be back before midnight. Not that I don't want them to enjoy, but I think parents always want the best for their children. They can enjoy with friends, just that they need to know the limit.
@phxautopatrs (321)
• China
2 Apr 08
i think you are good parents! but you know sometime when we join the party and will forget the limit time .and go home later ! so...
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
2 Apr 08
I would set some rules to follow, not allowed outside after midnight except if there is some occasion or party or some thing like that. But i couldnt really set some tight rules, as i myself had the worst night -outs of my teenage days. That really was bad, my parents always used to stop me and that made me do it all the time until something horrible happend and i realised what i get if i do not b in limits and also if i do not take my parents advice. I would not tie my son up, but i sure wud b careful.
@heart143 (1202)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
If he/she will have a valid reason for going home late at night, she will be forgiven...otherwise, I would really disallow it. I hope the kids out there would understand how their parents worry when they don't come home on time. It is not also safe staying outside your house late especially for young girls. I think there are more important things to do at home than staying outside like studying lessons and helping in the house.
I suggest you ask permission from your parents if you'll gonna go home late. As much as possible comply to what you've talked to so that you'll gain their trust. Choose your friends carefully and introduce them to your parents. If you have your parents' trust and they know you're with good friends, I think they would regard you as a responsible child and there's no reason for them to worry. Sooner, they will not mind if you stayer a little late outside.
