do you think love hanges our life.....
India
April 1, 2008 11:42pm CST
I have seen most of the time a person opts for a change becoz his/her love wants him/her to chane.I dont think we should chane for anybody until we get married wat you have to say & wat o you think..........
4 responses
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
i never change for the one i love, and he also, i dont want him to change, we love each other for what we are and im ready to accept him for anything he has. that is love,
• India
3 Apr 08
it is bcoz either ur bf is good enough whom u dont wanna change r u r too much gud to b acptd with out forcing u to chane...
@captainmorgan (773)
• Canada
2 Apr 08
Love has changed my life, but my boyfriend did not actaully force me to change. It was gradual, and happened because being in the relationship made me more mature. I also had to learn to be alot more patient and tolorant. I think change should happen before marriage. If you show your loved one that you are not able to change and grow in a positive way, then that sort of lets him or her know that you are not very willing to help the marriage grow and change over time.
• India
3 Apr 08
you are lucky enough that you hav got such a boy friend.it is becoz his character,forced you to chaned not he himself you are really lucky person.wish you all the best
@flurbl (60)
• United States
3 Apr 08
I think that when you're in love with someone and you really have a good time together, regardless of whether you're married or not, you don't necessarily change who you are, but your best qualities are shown. I don't believe you should have to change who you are because of someone else, unless it's to better yourself (i.e. drinking, smoking, etc.).
Of course, I have seen people change for what seems to be the worst when they get a new boyfriend or girlfriend and unfortunately it's usually because he or she is trying to be accepted.