do you beleive about your friend...??

I will not believe others when they say something bad about my friends,i must choose to believe my friends just like believe myself, i think it is the good way to keep a good friendship.

well, yeah, i have a good friendship that ended. it is not really because of what one said about us, but what my friend thought about me. and no matter how i tried to explain, nothing gave us the chance to mend our friendship. well, it was a loss, especially for me, but in the end, i felt relieved that the friendship ended. because she kind of choked me in the kind of friendship that we had. she was so controlling. i guess all good things must come to an end.:)

I refuse to believe others and their talk about others. I think if they have the time to spread information about someone they have too much time on their hands. In my friendships I am open and honest and if I wonder if something was said or done by my friend, I simply ask. I have friendships that have been strong for 40 years now, since age 4 for me!

It is true many friendship ends in bad third party intervention. but also it can act other way round. MNy so called best friend cheated on me. i could never think this according to him. still he behaved so. he was just taking advantage.

Hello dear ajesh. I am sorry that you have had this kind of experience in your life. I am happy that I do not have this experience with my friends. In fact, there are some people who do something bad to destroy the friendship between the others. It is better to be cautious with this kind of people. To be cautious is the best policy. Thank you for being my friend. Take care.

I have had some friends who just changed their attitude and behavior in recent years. They changed a lot that me and some fellow mates doesn't like it. So we just ignored them.

I had a very good friend who suddenly turned against me, I had a terrible time with my ex and I guess my best friend sided with my ex instead of me, it did hurt a lot because we had been friends a very long time and did everything together, go out socially, now he doesn't want to know me and has made it blatantly clear who he would rather be. Now I think well it's his loss he has lost a good friend in me, if you turn a negative into a positive you feel better and at the end of the day that friend of yours wasn't a good friend after all and you are better off without him!

for me that is already normal, i tell to myself if i will listen to them i lose lot of thing, much better to try by your self than other, it will bring you good & bad idea, ut we need to take good care of our friendship.

the word friendship has changed meaning. its after the time that i was cheated by so called best friend of mine, i just am very critical about believing what others say.I did not listen to what my other friend told. but it proved that he is a cheat.

Hello ajesh_pullad, I am glad and lucky that I never had this experience. I only have two best friends that I knew since my childhood. We are still close and as good friend as ever. But, personally I don't like to tell all to others even to my best friends. Maybe they know more about me compare to other regular friends but they don't know everything. I don't trust people 100 percent.

I know my friends well enough so that I would never believe things that other people said about them... I love and trust my friends, and I can talk to them about everything and know they won't tell anyone what we say between us. So its easy for me to see when someone is trying to cause trouble, and THEY are the ones I stop being friends with.