What do you think about inter-racial relationship/marriage?

Hello dear cheongyc. Thank you very much for this discussion. Well, in our school, I have already seen a few couples of interracial marriage. We have two couples of Chinese women and Japanese men and another couple of Chinese woman and American man, three couple in total. The Chinese-American couple are married with two kids, one boy and one girl, who are very cute and beautiful, looking like westerners instead of looking like us Chinese. Everyone on campus like them very much. As to the language issue, I do not think that there is any problem between them at all because either one of them could speak the language of the other party, which fills the language gap between them. As to the difference between the two different cultures, they respect each other, which is the basic requirement in an interracial marriage. If later my niece is interested in getting married to a foreigner of different race, I am sure to support her completely, but they need to know each other well first before making the decision to get married. No problem on my side. My niece has Japanese language as her major at college and is now working in a Sino-Japan company after she graduated from college last year. Anyway, love is the most important between the two parties, as it is the base of getting married...

I dont think it's a problem as long as both of them love each other. Local culture will surely affect your thinking on inter-racial relationship as it render you to become conservative. Anyway, i still doubt that why people go for inter-racial relationship? I prefer similar race.

I don't have problem with inter-racial relationship.I am totally onboard with this kind of relationship.I'm not a racist and I think all people all born to have right to choose their marrige,wether marry to their own race or not.Acutally I dreamed to marry a foreign guy when I was a little girl,I think it's a very cool,our kids would be very smart,as it's said inter-racial marriage tend to have more clever kids.And I wanted my kids looked like a baby doll,beautiful and cool.Haha,I wish.I 've already had a boyfriend and he and I are the same race,both Chinese.

Well that's cool.I am dreaming of being marriage with a foreign guy. I think i can learn more about the other countries.isn't it amazing? Though we may have some prombles,like different languages different culture.but i think it's ok.we will work it out.

I am not racist, but imagine learning a whole new language in order to communicate with his family, slang words to curse, new culture, new adaption to what we've already accustom to... That's quite a lot of work. Well, i think i am the lazy type. :)