is long distance relationship working?

It's really hard to determine if your relationship will really work. Just like any other relationship, you two have to work hard on it and the distance makes it harder for you. It's really hard to feel the sincerity of the person whom you see only in screen. Sometimes, written words cannot express exactly how you feel so you really have to work harder and to think wisely and with open mind on this. You and your boyfriend have different cultures and behavior and that complicates it more. I don't say that it will or it doesn't work...in fact a friend of mine married somebody whom she met only through chat. But what I'm telling you is it's gonna be a long process. Be wise and careful enough in choosing the person whom you like to spend your life with. There are a lot of bad guys in the internet and you must keep that in mind. Only you can tell if its' gonna work or not. As I've said, keep an open mind and think wisely. Good luck!

Communication is very essential in a relationship most especially in a situation like yours. Just keep in touch with your special someone and a little bit of trust and loyalty equals trouble... oh I mean a happy couple. I hope your relationship will work out. Wish you all the best. :)

I've been in a long distance relationship before. No doubt it was very hard, especially with the time difference. i have no idea how i survived that, but i did. drove me nuts at times and made me cry too. but there are many means to keep in touch; telephone, email, IMs, digi cam..etc. i missed him a lot, every single second and wish i could see him or for him to be physically there with me, whenever i was sad or happy. you need to have a solid trust, as you're not able to see what your other half is doing. And you need to have lots of faith, enough to not make you give up on your relationship. but i believe, in the end, love is what that holds you together. if two people really love each other, no matter how far they apart they are, they'll be able to go thru the relationship. love knows no boundaries ;) .

it really works. though many ways to make contact not physically but longings will be lessen. just remember trust and loves to each other will add to your long distance love affair. always keep in touch thru net but the best is fone- videofone..

Me and my boyfriend have 1500km distance between us. This is happening for 8 months now! It is very difficult and i will be so far for 4 years! I do not know how but now it is working! We have a lot of problems but i really love him and he loves me so we give our best! I do not know if it is going to keep but we try at least and that is that matter ! Good luck with your relationship!

it works depending on how it is carried out. if it is carried out with care, it will also last long, there is no doubt about it. But if it is some times just lost for less effort from both. long or short distance ot needs effort from both.

Yhea it will but of course it depends on you both. even it so far but still you really love each other there is no reasons for not working. The only secret for that is trust and communication, now a days it is not hard to get in touch with someone you love....

Love tight you as one. It's a connections that lead you to trust each other and continue of communications that playing an important role in having a long distance or miles away relationship.

based on my experience long distance relationship can work as long as no one will cheat. but if someone does, it will be break.

you guys never met at all? i have friends and even an aunt who got into this mess. friends are so far safe even though one had a real bad one going. Her mom got in and saved her. Aunt was not so lucky. Shes married with no kids. a happy family and doing good in her career. Started an affair in her 40s and left her husband. When she finally met this other person, she came running back. Thankfully she was not divorced and uncle was willing to accept her back.... Have yet to hear a good story from a person i personally know. Hae heard success stories. All the best. Keep your priorities right and you will be fine.

Long distance relationship takes a hard work, communication is the key. But sometimes communication failed, you should learn to have more patience and trust to each other.It's hard but just try it, there's no harm on trying right?Well pray to God always, have fun talking to him.Just think positive don't listen to other people say.It your heart and that's your life your the only who will decide. okies...ingats girl...mwah