Hi guys,can you answer my question honestly ?
By jiangsl
@jiangsl (377)
China
April 3, 2008 8:53pm CST
Dare you like a girl who is more excellent than you?For example,she earns more money or she is very beautiful or she has a big house.It is a risk for you to like her.Especially,she has no interested with you.But you are really like that kind of girls ,how will you do? Give up?
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@JJ4Ever5377 (17)
• United States
4 Apr 08
I'm engaged to a girl who is way above me. She makes a little bit more money and she's absolutely beautiful. I feel like the luckiest guy in the world to be able to marry her soon. She's very smart, and I'm better with other things. She's good at reading and things like that while I'm good with hands-on things. I think we're very opposite in the way we are, but that's why I'm attracted to her. I suppose since I'm engaged to her, I won't give up because she loves me right back. Of course, her parents aren't please with me because she's better than me, she's above me in some ways. They think that she shouldn't love me or marry me because I don't make as much money as she does and because she's better than me. Sometimes this makes me want to give up, but I know she's worth it and I love her for who she is, she loves me for who I am also. I think it makes it hard when things are like this, but it's worth it in the end. Have you had a relationship like this also?
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@JJ4Ever5377 (17)
• United States
7 Apr 08
Thanks! You seem very nice, and every girl likes that. Girls aren't always concerned with looks and money in guys. They look deeper for personality and the things that are inside. That's what makes us all different and those are the kinds of things that last. Good luck to you. I hope you find the most wonderful girl in the world that you deserve and that she deserves you. You will know when this happens!
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
Well, if I do get to like someone like that, I might as well be motivated to prove to her that I can be as successful as herself and even more so to push more effort on making the best that I could be.
There aren't any risks when you count to think of it. Maybe you'll get depressed since your ego can't compete with the success that she's having but, it really depends on every individual on how they woud cope with the things that they encounter.
If I really like such a kind, I would do my best to get her attention of course and it really helps me twice, to be successful for myself and developing a better me.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
Your quite welcome
if you think its love, we just do everything we can, as usual
@titaniumsoul (1191)
• Singapore
4 Apr 08
I will try to tackle her though she is not interested in me. Without trying, you will never knows the result. If I know her character is outgoing and friendly, I will step on the accelerator to express my interest and hope she will accept my sincerity else forget totally about her.