It Went From Bad To Worse... I'm So Stressed Out!!

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I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone. I really do. All I do now is sleep because the stress is getting to me. Here's the update. My husband's mother is in a hallucinating state of mind. We don't think she'll be with them much longer. She's seeing and calling out to her mother, father and her brothers. My husband had spent Friday to Tuesday with her and his sister. A few hours after he left to come home his step father, the only father he's ever known, has fallen down and was rushed to the hospital and the doctors think he had a heart attack and has broken one hip and fractured the other. He's 87 years old and so we all don't think he'll survive the surgery if there is to be one. My husband is so confused in whether he should return or stay here. I'm not either but in a way I'm thinking he should stay here because like I said before, his sister knew what she was getting into when she bought that house because of the small one behind hers for them, and has taken care of the elderly before so it's nothing new to her but it's one excuse after another that she's stressed out. We all know she's a drama queen and can make things sound worse than they really are so we have to take everything with a grain of salt but still, hubby is so sensitive and tries to do that but it's hard for him to let it go in the wind and see through what she's saying. I guess because he knows how their mother and step father are and they can make things pretty difficult but now that their mother is mentally gone, it's their step father who's causing a bunch of problems in the way the sister is doing things. Hubby had to put him in his place a few times while he was there and now that he's had a heart attack, hubby is feeling a wee bit guilty but also knows it had to be done. I told him it's a no win situation because he had to be put in his place because his sister is doing the work as it should be done. Anyway.... it looks like hubby will be losing both at the same time or darn close together. In a way it's a good thing because it's the way they wanted to go because they've always said that if one dies the other will commit suicide. To top it all off, hubby's neice who had a fallen out with hubby's mother quite a while back over some stolen money, she's moved in and is caring for their mother, her grandmother. Her grandmother who is in this state of mind because she's dying, doesn't know it's her taking care of her while hubby's sister is at the hospital with their step father. Probably a good thing she's out of her mind but still very sad. There's more... My nephew's car that he dearly loved and paid on for three years was repossessed. He's so upset over it but takes full responsibility for it. He needs $2,500. to get it back. Poor kid has cried his heart out over this and I wish I could help him but I'm in a pickle myself. He and his fiance are getting married as well this summer. Are they going to be able to? And they're suppose to buy my parents house in the fall... are they going to be able to? They'll put my parents in one heck of a spot if they don't because they'll have to pay the full amount of the mortgage which they can't afford. And there's one more... I'm worried sick about a dear dear friend who is going through a terrible divorce. She knows who she is and there's nothing you can do about it either! lol I love you dearly so therefore I'm going to worry about ya, ok?Hubby is so depressed about our money situation and can't afford to drive up there and back because of the gas prices and because we just don't have it. I've been on here more often than not trying to make a little bit more, just a bit more for him and because I've got to buy an outfit for the funeral(s) because nothing that I have now fits me anymore. Gee, does it ever end? When it rains it pours around here. Speaking of that, it's been raining here for 5 days now and gosh, the gloomy-ness isn't helping me at all. Sooooo how are you all doing? (sarcasticlly speaking)