do u think that u r noticed in a gathering?

i don't really care if they notices me or not it's much better for me to be not noticed at all

i dont think so. i am a typical girl so i dont make grand entrances, and i dont wear flashy clothes that people will really notice. i like to stay that way though. :)

It really depends on what type of gatherings. If it's a gathering involving all close friends, I'll definitely be noticed. In fact, I'm usually the butt of all jokes. If it's a gathering involving some strangers, it will then depend on my mood. Sometimes, I'll be in the mood to socialize and sometimes I'll not be.

i don't really care about being noticed or not. but it bothers me when a lot of people look at me. that's why i prefer not being noticed. i'm not really sociable. to socialize is as hard as getting a passing grade in calculus (i'm not a math wizard) back in college. i only wear what i usually wear even when the gathering's a bit formal since i'd still find a way to be casual (i will not attend if it's strictly formal). cause if i would wear something other than my usual jeans, sneakers and shirts, then my friends will definitely notice me.

Maybe not before, but things have changed since I've changed myself. No one will notice you unless you express yourself well. But one thing is important: Don't deliberately try to capture other's attention.

I think that is very easy to get lost in a gathering. The more people there are the more anonymous everybody feels. If you are a born leader you will be noticed anyway. You can not hide your charisma. But not everybody got the same gifts. And thank Good for that. The main think is to be your self and not being ashamed of whatever special is about you. It is only yours and nobody else. Problem is when you starting to compare your gifts to others and you do not appreciate your individuality. Besides who said which gifts are better then other? My point is that you do not need to be noticed in a gathering. Sometimes it is even better. Sometimes it is better to sit aside and observe without being interrupted all the time. At least you can learn something.