ok, difficult one..
By stacyv81
@stacyv81 (5903)
United States
4 responses
@monkeymade (119)
• United States
4 Apr 08
You kindly ask the brother to move back out. Your b/f has to understand, its a choice between having his brother there, or having his g/f there. If you've been together long, he should pick you, if you haven't been together long, he "should" pick his brother, not that it matters because if you havn't been together long enough for him to pick you over his brother staying there, you haven't been together long enough to put up with such bullsh!t either.
@monkeymade (119)
• United States
4 Apr 08
It sounds like you've hit a rough patch in your life, and even more so like its not really your fault. I'm sorry to hear all of that, but if he cares for you so little, move on, seriously, you don't need that in your life, or in the lives of your children.
@wittyakanksha (436)
• India
4 Apr 08
I think my boyfriend will have to do a lot of explaining with that one with me.I mean he must have a good reason in believing that I slept with his brother specially if I'm the one who's going through all the sarcastic comments he can come up with.I think the best way to handle it is to get your guy talking to you that why does he feel so and explain to him that you have never had any such relationship with his brother.Then request him to get over it an dnot make you go through it over every night.
@kalaowl (8)
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4 Apr 08
It takes a lot of strength to go through something like this, but it sounds like your boyfriend is insecure. And if he is insecure after 7 years, well that usually (not always mind you)means that he has given himself a reason to be insecure. Most the time when you see that in a relationship, its because the guy is cheating himself! When you do something you start seeing it everywhere else. I would say that if he said he would find somewhere else let him go. It might be hard but you deserve better. He doesnt even sound like he is trying.
