How many friends do you have that you can trust?
By arjun999
@arjun999 (1004)
India
14 responses
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
6 Apr 08
I have a lot of friends, some bestfriends and most bestfriend.
There's only two person that i consider my bestfriend, i can trust them at the highest percent ever. Meaning even my life. Tell my problem and hide nothing, they know me from feet to head and from inner to outside.
First was God, He know everything from me. When i'm happy, i'm lonely, in my success, in my failure, at the toughest part of my life, He was there to inspire me keep on moving. Lighten my cross when needed. Thank Him for all the blessings that he Give. Appreciate all the things that He done to me no matter how i struggle for it.
Second was my Mom. A mom that i can lean on when i needed a shoulder to cry on. A mom where i can share my success. A mom that will tell me if my face is dirty, criticize me to be strong and dream for more. A mom that use the reverse psychology, a tactic for me to didn't do something wrong or to think better than before. A mom that was visible when i am totally down and nobody cares. A mom who think of my happiness first before her. A mom that i love so much more than my life then my daughter.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
8 Apr 08
Wow. I am blown away by your discussion. It is really heart warming to see your love for your mom. I did not consider my mom as my friend. I guess we can indlude our family also. I like my mom a lot too and trust her in almost every thing. I am including her too in my list of trustworthy friends. Thanks for the idea mate.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
6 Apr 08
I dont fully trust my friends on everything..I can say I have 4 whom I can trust!
@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
4 Apr 08
I have several friends that I can trust with anything and yet I have no "best" friend. I belong to a sorority group that I have been a member of for over 30 years and I know that I could trust almost every one of the other 9 of them with anything that I put before them. I have known at least 4 of them that entire time. The others I have known 20-30 years. (it is NOT a college affiliated sorority) I also have 2 other friends who are not in the sorority group who I would trust with anything, as well. One is a close friend of the family who was once a close friend to one of my sisters, but I see her more than my sister does since we bowl together and have for years and the other I met when our children were younger. I am blessed that I have so many people who I can truly call my friend.
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
5 Apr 08
That's a good question but it's hard to answre. I might just havesome 5 friends that I could really trust in since the other firends might not do their best to support as those who I could really trust.
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
5 Apr 08
i think, i have, 3 friends to trust. but 2 are far away from me. now i have only one.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
so far, those person that i trust are my close friends. they're only 4 of them
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
4 Apr 08
I have about 8 friends that I can truly trust, trust with my life and trust with every secret I have, they have proved trustworthy time and time again and I have never had any reason to doubt them, I keep them close and they are wonderful and priceless! Friendship is a great thing in this life, trustworthy friends is like gold, once you have it you don't want to lose it. It's special, and I count myself lucky to have 8 completely solid, trustworthy friends in my life.
@anonymili (3138)
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4 Apr 08
I would say I have dozens and dozens of friends but close friends I would say I have about 4 or 5 - these ones are the ones that I can trust with my life, some of them I've known my whole life and some of them I've known for 10 or so years. I guess it depends on what trust you get from your friends as well as to how much you trust them. For example, if you trust someone implicitly and then find out that they have not shared something with you but with someone else, you might think twice yourself about trusting that person so much in the future, don't you agree?
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
4 Apr 08
Hello dear arjun. I trust my good friends very much and I am sure that they would not pass on to others what I tell them. I have as many good friends as six in my working community.
@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
4 Apr 08
One, I have found thats no true friends. They always screw you someway or somehow. God is my only true friend.
@bubblyapple (2653)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
i got 4 or 5 friends i could trust...they know me inside out, i'm lucky i have friends i could trust, no matter what they won't judge me...i treasure them so much because they are tried and tested and its not easy to find replacement of them :-)
@kulaskulasito (430)
• United States
4 Apr 08
Well, let's see, hmmm, I think I have 5 friends whom I can truly trust. They know me, my struggles, my life stories, my fears, my stregths and weaknesses, my phobias, my goodness, my not-so-good attitudes, my temperaments, my secrets.
What's good about having them is that I feel I am safe with them, and I feel I can be who I am in season and out of season.
Needless to say, the trust is mutual and we are helping one another in times of need, share the joys of one another in times of joy.
You're right. It is really great to have a friend, or friends that you can fully trust. I am not sure what is life without them, and of course a family to always be a home no matter what.