Do you think keeping a certain distance with your friend is good for you both?
By wnbwnbwnb
@wnbwnbwnb (426)
China
April 4, 2008 6:53am CST
I do think so.
Actually, I am an easy person and have lots of good friends in my real life.We do a lot of things together,and sometimes we could spend several days living or fooling around.But after a couple of days, I could feel a little bit strange,(it's hard to express that feeling).I just want to escape from him/her,and not see them for a couple of monthes.
I guess that I do want to keep some distance with others,although he is my BF or my good friend or so.
So, what about you? Do you want to keep a certain distance with others? And do you think this habit is bad for one to keep a close tie with others?
1 response
@my_january (967)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
Yes I have felt the same way. There are times that I don't want to be around my friends. I guess this is a time of my life wherein I prefer to be alone. But of course I love spending time with my friends. I think, every people, no matter what is our relationship with them, it is normal that we keep a certain distance witfor ourselves. The distance that I am talking about is this little space for us to live life alone and to grow individually. We must learn to flap our wings alone so we could fly before we learn the rhythm on how to fly with others. I guess it is not that bad, but make sure not too keep so much distance, otherwise, it might be bad because you don't have any news about them. If you want some time alone, still send them emails or sms, or call them, to do a little catch up. Never be too cold for those people who you care about. We don't want to lose them just because we are too distant. 
