on and off again man
By RIDGEMOM
@RIDGEMOM (28)
United States
April 4, 2008 7:46am CST
i have this man who i really care about. he is 50 im 49. been seeing each other 2 months now. loving is great but thing is wheni ask for time together he always has excuses. i go to his house when he wants me there. and it is great but i need more than that. every time i try to talk to him about he he runs off puter and gets mad about it. he says he cares but i dont know what to do. he says his ex left him feeling bad about himself. but that was over 15 years ago. he has been alone since. what do i do to get him to see and feel it is ok to love again and be loved. how do i get thru to him
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@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
4 Apr 08
It is too early to want more. You have known this man for 2 months only. He has been living alone for 15 years. He needs his space. Also you don't know him very well. You don't know yet if he has closed off previous relationships completely. Be patient, enjoy your time with him, build up trust between yourselves before you take this to a new level.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
4 Apr 08
...sometimes it seems like the more you want a man, the less he wants you.. (not speaking sexually, however). When I first got together with my man (husband now, for 30 years) I had an attitude like a man.. I could take him or leave him, so of course he fell head over heels.. So, judging from my own experience, don't be so available.. don't play games, but let him wonder, and talk to other guys, in case this guy never does pan out..
Good luck! 
