why do you seek friendship?
By BYOLA2871
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
South Africa
April 4, 2008 9:12am CST
we choose to be friends with different people for different reasons.here at mylot people suddenly request friendship from you and you approve the request only to see they dont even talk to you again,if you are to make a request for friendship here on mylot what will really motivate you to do that?
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@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
4 Apr 08
you are quite right no man is an island ,we usually do anything togain friendship but sometimes we fiorget that securing friendship is not as important as nurturing and growing it
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I have no problem seeking friends here at Mylot or accepting any friend requests from others here. I accpet them all, but not all of them have accepted me for one reason or another. I like to be friendly to everyone here. I have met alot of nice people here. I have only met a couple of rude ones so far.
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@jiangsl (377)
• China
4 Apr 08
Hi BYOLA2871,At the beginning,I make a request no purpose.I want to have more friends in mylot.Now I think we should support each other,and do your best to response your friends' discussion.You should exchange views every a short time.Don't estrange you from your mylot friends.
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
4 Apr 08
i am not saying i wont repond to my friends i will never ignore anyone i have agreed to be friends with the only thing that can happen is tha it may take time if am not in town to respond but i must respond its a must for me and i will never hide information that will be useful to my friends from them
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I do it because I need more friends and I want to know when they start a new discussion! I ask for friendship if the person seems to be similar to me, or I like the responses they give! if I see they are starting interesting discussions that I can relate to, then I will ask for friendship. I do not do much messaging, but will reply if I receive a message! Thanks for accepting my friendship!
@jhoannejoj (963)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
Hi byola. On my first day here in mylot, I responded to people's discussions I find interesting then I asked them to be my friends. The reason was I want to establish good relationship with people here. I then answered to their new posts or sometimes old posts that I find interesting too. As days passed by, within those list of people I started to gain virtual friends. We sometimes sent private messages and learned good aspects of life from them.
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
4 Apr 08
yes you have a very good intention and honestly that was the best way to go about it i did same thing when i was new on mylot but my problem is sometimes people suddenly dont respond to your posts again aor they simply vanish away from the site,i have had a particular guy who asked me for friendship ask me for some links i gave them to him of course but since then no messages from him not even to tell me how it went
@jhoannejoj (963)
• Philippines
4 Apr 08
Oh maybe some people get tired after some couple of weeks they spend in mylot. Even myself, there were moments I felt bored and wanted to stop. But somehow I manage to stay active as possible.
@PHAROHTHEILLER (15)
• Egypt
4 Apr 08
may i answer your question with another question i think it may let every one why we seek friendship ok??
Tell me if u don't have any friends what will you do in your life every day especially in holidays and if you wanted to go some where to have some fun who will you take with you ??
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
4 Apr 08
dear pharoheiller,i like the question but i am not saying i dont have friends,i do in fact when am not with my family am with friends both on and off line,what am saying is that some of us are good at asking for friendship but soon loose the essence of keeping making the friendship work because we dont keep in touch,do you understand my point now?