Do you forgive or hold grudges?
By chance00
@chance00 (3331)
United States
23 responses
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
1 Nov 06
I'm like you I forgive I can't hold grudges to long it's not in me!
@ForbiddenBeauty (209)
• United States
1 Nov 06
I think it honestly depends on what the person did, and if they deserve another chance. For example, I would probally never forgive someone who would cheat on me, yet if it was a simple mistake or they forgot something like an anniversary, then yes i'd forgive, Theyd just have to make up for it ;)
@jiffys_frog_woman (4050)
• United States
1 Nov 06
i do a little of both guess it just depends on the situtaion
@Backpack30 (924)
• United States
1 Nov 06
If it's a small thing, sure, I forgive, but if it's something big, it's harder for me to do that.
BUT I do want to work on that.
I need to learn to forgive.
Holding grudges is not a Christian way of life.
@rachelynn (428)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I'm a forgiver. I'll be honest sometimes it takes me awhile to forgive, but I believe that forgiveness is the best route to take. Holding grudges only hurts you.
@shellyrios (1212)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I use to hold grudges when I was younger in my late teens to early 20's, but I learned to become more forgiving, and feel way better about it. So now I consider myself a forgiver.....
@micheller (1365)
• United States
31 Oct 06
depends on the sit... but you should always forgive because if you don't yur jus letting the person have control over you.
@powerhub500 (192)
• India
31 Oct 06
i've never held a grudge for more than 2 days after which i even tend to forget why i was upset....i forgive too easily...people tend to take me for a ride.
@rhane2005 (174)
• United States
31 Oct 06
It depends on the situation, if it was something little, I'll usually forgive, but if it was something that really hurt me or someone else I love, I hold grudges.