Inner beauty.

No doubt internal beauty is filter coffee, the essence with remain in you. Outer beauty is instant coffee, the essence with last for seconds. My advice is your partner should have atleast 40 per cent of qualities of what you imagine. Then both of u can sail the life smoothly. Love all, but like only those who like you. gud luk

Yeah sure inner beauty is essential , but no1 can know who has that inner beauty, we just c some1, get attracted to them and think we r in love, only after knowing them do we assume what they r about.

I agree with you valatha, the only problem with this is that it takes time to see it. Most of the times we are not even aware that it's been there all along.

I think your right - and although as everyone points out it can be harder to find that person because you are not necessarily attracted to them physically, it's not always true. The thing with those who have lots of inner beauty and little external is that the best way to meet them is if you are friends initially, friends of friends or co-workers. That way you get to know them for who they are and then fall for them rather than going in for the kill based on looks alone. Personally this is always the way I do it - and at the moment I happend to have found smeone with both. I find him attractiveut it was him personality that actually attracted me to be with him. Though in the past I have had my fair share of lets say not that aesthetically pleasing guys who wowed me with their personalities, or have just been genuinely good people.