I helped one girl who is very poor but now it turns to bad one
By sweetgraceb
@sweetgraceb (6)
Philippines
April 5, 2008 1:27am CST
i helped one girl who was very poor there home is messy, cant eat enough food a day, and i decided to help this girl (21 years old that time) for she and her mom asked help on me. By then, i chatted a man, the man didnt know the truth that i was the one who chatted him and not the girl from the pic he sees... everyday 3 to 5 hours time chatting online we developed a love story that is like a fairy tale until time comes that the man gave everything to the girl that i've helped, and since i help her in sincere and kind way i didnt ask in return what i wanted to do is if its heartly given then i would accept what she give me... i didnt grab the opportunity for i want her to have a good family situation, until this time comes... the man get her and bring there in USA and she lived with his husband for 4 years and have 1 daughter, i heard many gossips a bad one but i didnt mind it for we all know its a gossips then i decided to see for myself if all i heard are true for we all know that "action speak louder than words" YES! all i heard was true! her family (parents) was completely change! the family (parents) that i know from past was down to earth, kindhearted and respectful but NOW it was change A LOT! it all turn into opposite sides... and then she called me the BAD ONE... if i was bad would you think i would help her in everything... about the good life they have now because of me... well, i prayed to GOD put everything to GOD and i know my conscience is very clear! God sees everything...and all the effort i did to her. all i want to this girl is to thank me in a very sincere way...
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@surfette (673)
• United States
5 Apr 08
This sounds like a rather complicated situation. You helped this girl and her family, but they want to ignore your kindness and the help that you gave to them.
It seems like this happens many times in life. There are people that are givers (like you) who sincerely try to help everyone and then there are takers (like your friend) that are willing to take any help without being grateful or even saying thank you.
You are a good and sincere person. Not all people are like that and most will say thank you for your kindness. May you be rewarded in many ways, even just knowing in your heart that you helped without the return kindness to you. Even if this person is too selfish to say it, I say "Thank You". If there were more people like you, then it would be a better world. I wish for you a very happy life.
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@sweetgraceb (6)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
thank you surfette in your comment to this, i was touched when you say those words... i also wish that you will have a blessed life and health.. thank you again and God bless us all!!!
@elsoft12 (1821)
• India
5 Apr 08
Its nice to hear that you have helped some one in their life and they are in a better position in their lives..you believe because of you.Cngratualations to you for that...thats one of the better achievements in your life.
Once you reached those levels of goodness in life..do you think you should downsize yourselves by expecting a thank you and bringing on misery onto yourselves and your thoughts ..your life.
You have done something good..Be proud of that..dont be unhappy about an acknowledgement...It will come at a time when you need the most and when you may not even be expecting.
Be happy.
