Have you get marry when you are over 25?
By jiayunhong
@jiayunhong (116)
China
April 5, 2008 10:10pm CST
I was born in 1982, even though i am nearly 26 this year, but i am still think i was too young to get marry. But someone says it's not horrific if you are alone, but it would be horrific if many people around you hope you are not alone anymore.Now many friends similar age as me are headache about this.Parents and other people always care about you, asked when you will find a lover and then get marry. To be honest, everyone hope to meet a good lover in his life, and hope to live a happiness life. But it's not easy to meet this suitable guy, especially now yound people work under big pressure,have few time and chance to know new guys.
So how do you do when your parents push you for this?
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5 responses
@wnbwnbwnb (426)
• China
6 Apr 08
I'm lucky enough since my parents never push me for that!
Well, for me,I do enjoy being alone at this moment,and I'm sure that one day,I will meet someone special,then I will marry him.
Don't marry someone just because you parents want you to,or just because you think it is the right time for you to do it!
Enjoy being alone!
By the way,you are quite young,don't bother!
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@jiayunhong (116)
• China
8 Apr 08
haha, it's so kind of you to say this to me.
yes, i can not marry with anyone just becasue of push from my parents.
i do hope i can meet my real lover this year, which can reduce my pressure. and i understand my parents worry, they hope there's someone can take care of me.
hope all of us can live a happiness life.
have a nice day!
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
6 Apr 08
I am 23 at the moment and I do not want to get married until I am past 26 or 27.
@jiayunhong (116)
• China
8 Apr 08
haha, i am envy you.
when i was just graduated from university, i was 22 years old. and i feel i was still too young. never think of marry.
but now i am a little confused about this.
@Galena (9110)
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7 Apr 08
26 is still very young. I'll be 29 when I get married next year, and I don't feel there is any rush.
if you're not in love, in a happy relationship, then you're not ready to marry.
some people never get married, and that's fine too. it's not necessary unless you want it.
@jiayunhong (116)
• China
9 Apr 08
i think you have your own idea about this, right?
if you are happy, pls insist on your own life stytle.
i belive you are brave lady.
@jiayunhong (116)
• China
8 Apr 08
i am glad to hear that you will get married next year, wish you live a happiness life.
i think i can accept been alone all life, this is one style. but i will not follow this. in china, if you are a lady more than 30 and still alne, you will be talked as strange person.
i am afraid of this.
