what should i do?!!!
By littlewhite
@littlewhite (256)
China
April 6, 2008 5:42am CST
yesterday i went to met the guy whom knew on the internet, be4 i met her i felt i like her and fell in love to her, i have never seen her photo before but she have saw my photo, before we decided to have a met, she have said i am not her style if we face to face, but, yesterday we met each other,then,when we finished oue date, i went home and recived her message, she said she fall in love to me from the first sight she saw me,,but,,but i have not that kinda feeling,,,what can i do,?
10 responses
@gemini_rose (16264)
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6 Apr 08
If you do not have those feelings for her then you have to be honest with her and tell her how you feel, as if you do not then you will be stuck in an awkward position and then you will end up hurting her feelings, so just be totally honest. As you have only met once it will be easy for you both and maybe you can continue to just be friends.
@littlewhite (256)
• China
6 Apr 08
um,,she is nearly 30years old and i am 23,,but she dont know iam 23,,i am afriad if i am honestly tell she my feeling what will she do,,,or,,if i can think about be friends with she then i'll fall in love to her???
@gemini_rose (16264)
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6 Apr 08
Well I would still say be honest about everything, when I met my hubby I did not realise that he was 5 years younger than me, when he told me his age I was a bit shocked, when he asked my age I lied and knocked a couple of years off it. He found out 8 weeks into the relationship and was gutted that I had lied. We are still together but I wish that I had just been totally honest with him in the first place.
@sweety10 (188)
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6 Apr 08
first of all i never had gone 4 online frnd dating...bt i can advice u not 2 lie her...n just tell her that u don't have such a feeling 4 her n u want frdship ...because if u lie then she will more hurt rather than u will tell her the truth...so i think u should tell her the truth that u dont have such a feeling n be gud friends...
@littlewhite (256)
• China
6 Apr 08
be4 we decided to met each other i have had a feeling withe her,,i have asked her seravl times to go out but she refused,,then,,now the situation seems on contray,,,yesterday evening after she said she fall in love to me,,i turn my suprise then she called to me asked me if i was friten,,she said she just kidding asked me forgot that,,but i think she is serious but not kidding,,yep,,i wont tell lies i know lie is really hurt,,!thanks!
@littlewhite (256)
• China
14 Apr 08
thanks alot..many friends here all advice me to be honestly, i will!!
@Petercheung (681)
• China
17 Apr 08
Well,if you love her,you can tel her ,if not ,then tell her the truth
But never hurt her,good luck
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
Hi There.
If you are not sure of your feelings or if you can't return her feelings, it would be better if you tell her how you feel about her. yes, it will hurt her feelings but that is better than hurting her if you don't tell the truth.
Or maybe you just need to get to knoW each other as friends first before you really decide.
Goodluck!
@littlewhite (256)
• China
21 May 08
ooh dear friend,,i am afarid as time runs i have fall in love to summer,,and we meet seravel times,,kiss,,hug,,,time can change anything i just wanna say,! but there have problems,,,,sick,
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
I see. I wish you goodluck with your relationship with your loveones.
@lovablefalak (39)
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9 Apr 08
dont fall she is going by looks not nature
such relationships dont last
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
8 Apr 08
if you dont have same feeling for her just be honest to her or else she will expect a lot from you, that will be another problem which is more complicated..be honest tell her about your feeling and it doesn't mean you dont like her to be your friend. That you want to enjoy more to be her friends so you will just continue communicating!
@littlewhite (256)
• China
14 Apr 08
thanks for ur response..yep u r right,,or else maybe she will expect more from me..sevearl days ago she asked me if i would go with she for business,,i said if i have time i would go,,i am not lie to her but honestly..beacause i feel she is too tired..
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
8 Apr 08
Be honest with her. Honesty is always the best policy. Hopefully she will understand.
@monishavakil (1019)
• India
8 Apr 08
thats a bit weird, is it the looks that she has fallen for. I cannot believe how people just use the word love its so funny. People so misuse this word whenever they feel like. You cannot really fall in love with anyone just like that. you need to know the person share monments share incedences and share a lot to understand each other and then fall in love.if i was you i would take it easy. just relax and go with the flow.
@littlewhite (256)
• China
14 Apr 08
these days summer is in HK for business,,
these two days something happened & i was very down..
@littlewhite (256)
• China
6 Apr 08
um,,to be honestly,,summer donot as the i thought be4,,so i think i am stuip!
