Can a person Really change???
@Purplelaurii77 (157)
United States
April 6, 2008 11:56am CST
We have been apart for 10 years in that time he went to prison straightened up his life and wanted to put the family back together. Eveything looks good and we have been spending time together but the push is on for more. Do I follow my heart or listen to my mind??
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@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
6 Apr 08
If you love this person, then maybe you can give it a chance. But remember that people don't change easily. It would take time, and focus to make a change. But if he is really up to it, the person can change. If he was just saying it and not really meaning what he says, then, whatever change he shows for now would only be superficial. The real thing will surface eventually.
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@princesita4ever (145)
• United States
15 Apr 08
hey, I personally don't believe in second chances because if he did it one time what makes you think he is not gonna do it again, That's my point of view, I understand that out of 100% maybe 1% would really change but still I wouldn't go back, but I can tell you this, follow your heart if that's what makes you happy, if you really think he deserve another chance then go for it, Good luck and take care.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
6 Apr 08
Hi Purplelaurii, It is very hard to advice on individual cases, especially when you don't know the people involved. I know that many people do change, but not everyone. Some try but seem to be unable to change. You will have to trust your own feelings on this one. Blessings.
