Love ends, when deadma begins

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4 years ago, I found and kept a copy of an article in a Christian Magazine titled "Love Ends, When Deadma Begins". It's a good read. For those of you who's not familiar with the word "DEADMA", it simply means 'ignoring or snubbing'. Like the person doesn't exist, like he wasn't there. When a friend is brokenhearted, I'd just forward the article to him/her and most of the time they feel better. Well, that's what a friend told me!! Hehehehe.. And now, I'd like to share it with you! :) "Love Ends, When Deadma Begins A philosopher said that hate is not the opposite of love. Hating your ex-boyfriend doesn't mean you don't love him anymore. The fact that you are giving him such intense emotions means that he has an effect on you, and that he is still worth of your attention. Apathy is the opposite of love. You can only say that you've fallen out of love when you become indifferent to him, and that you no longer care what he says or does. So how can you stop love? Unfortunately, you can't. Love dies naturally. You would just wake up one day and realize that you're over him. So don't suppress your feelings because that would only make things more difficult. If you want to forget a past love or a long-time crush who has been ignoring you, be patient. Forgetting someone doesn't happen overnight. Don't be fixated on your feelings. Just live on a day-to-day basis and eventually, you would be proud of yourself when you find out that you are living a life, with no trace of him."