I am puzzle
By suyuqingyuan
@suyuqingyuan (11)
China
April 7, 2008 2:27am CST
I dong't know if I have done improperly.Yestoday I have a quarrel with my roommate, as some slight reasons. It is becoming warmer and warmer here. I hold the view that we should open the door to let the room become windy, but she insist closing the door.And do you know she always let us open the door in the winter. She insist that with an assumption of authority.When I told her our feeling, she is very exasperated against with that.The failing negotiations between us make us strangness.
What make me feel puzzle is my other roommate, we have the same feeling before,and sometimes they tell me their discontentment with her crossness. In the winder we feel cold, in the summer we feel hot.Although when I was talking with the girl ,my other roommate said they don't have any demurral with that.
Now I don't want to talk any one with them .May be slient is right. I don't want to be irritated by her offiensive remarks.I retain slient from now on.
1 response
@LucyZhang (313)
• China
7 Apr 08
I really understand your feeling. Although roommates who come from different places have different custom and grew up in different surroundings, they should hear other peoples' opinion and consider other peoples' feeling. If her action caused some trouble to others, she should change herself. Your other roommates who have the same dicontentment with you before dare to offend the self-will girl and pretend they have no dissension made me more angry, because their remind me of my roommates in the university. When I was in the university, I have met the same thing. I quarrelled with a girl for one thing because others also felt uncomfortable, but none of them said one word during the quarrel. The girl who make them uncomfortable bought them a lot of snacks after the quarrel and they chatted very happily. I felt I was cheated and disappoint with them. I think persons who can not insist and express their real feeling are coward, I didn't need this kind of friends. So the relationship between me and them colder and colder, I played with my best friends in my class and only slept in this dorm, we have no connection after graduation. I didn't think it was the best way to deal with it, but i hate their behavior very much.
