how important does your lover play in your life?

I would not allow any man to treat me like that, I certainly wouldnt allow him to always make me cry. No relationship is ever perfect but for him to always be making you cry says to me he is not a very nice person and I would have to think about wether i could put up with that or wether to find a man who treated me with the respect I deserved. A career is important but it shouldnt be used to make you feel like you are not important at all.

In a relationship there should be understanding, love and affection plus mutual respect. Only then you can be happy. If it is not there then the person is not in love with you, he is just using you. That's all. There is no point in maintaining such a relationship. Always remember. Respect plays a most important place in a relationship. If he doen't show any respect to youthen it is no good relationship. It is better you come out of the relatinship. he'll then use you like a doormat , just a tool for his happiness .Do you want a life like that? Think about it dear. I wouldn't allow a man to treat me like that. I am a mother who has a married daughter. I can understand what is going on. All the best

hi kylinjay,there must be something wrong in the relationship between you and him.maybe you have to sit together to have a long and further talk,after which you can decide how to get along with him in future or change your relationship. both of you have to think carefully first.best wishes.

Me either! I will never allow to be treated like that. Maybe once or twice when at times he really forget to answer his phone because he always put it in "silent" mode but never ever I allow him to really do that to me intentionally but ofcourse if we get into a fight.. he would not reply for an hour or so but he still will reply. No man is worth for you love if he doesn't respect and treat you good. Talk to him regarding about your feelings. If you see that you are not important to him then maybe, it is time for you to think if it is best to stay with the relationship or let go.. .for your own sake and good. goodluck.

of crse very imortant thats why i,m realy worried if his not get in touch with me or even mail

Hey kylinjay, I am sometimes like that,therefore I thought or replying. Guess what I do this too. I love my girl a lot. I do this only that I am unsure of what she thinks of me and i don't want to be taken for granted. But I know she is like you. My Advice , Next time he say that, support him. Tough to agree but support him. Agree with him and pretend that he won't matter if he is gone. HE will definetly want you back theway you were. Trust me she does the same!!!