Is this love relationship going to die?
By Dorislee
@Dorislee (209)
China
April 7, 2008 8:07am CST
Today got a call from one my best friend, voice was so despairing and depressed, she with her husband already 6 years relationship, still no reach SEVENTH YEAR ITCH, but right now there is nearly no conversation between them , they two feel just like strangers, can not find strong feelings which before they had any more.
She thought about divorce, planned to say goodbye, but at the end no enough courage to say that words out, after all, they've lived together for 6 years long, it's really hard to cut this relationship off, actually don't know how to cut off.I persuaded her not to give up so easily, she may try to find ways to repair their relationship first, if deed no way to remedy, then make final decisions.
The situation like this, do you think there is still love feelings between them? why love can last forever? Didn't they love each other deep enough?
Why?
5 responses
@peierlin (57)
• China
7 Apr 08
As they have been together for more than 6 years, I think there must still be some love feelings between them, maybe not as the feeling as 6 years ago, but it may turn into some kind of family love, and this is the kind of love that many couples end with. As they have been married for 10,20 or more years,and they have their children, the nature of love and the way they show their love will both change. I agree with you, your friend can try again and give her husband and her another chance. If it really doesn't help and then she may give up.
I think love can last forever, but this is based on mutual understanding, mutual trust, mutual support and sometimes there must be someone to take the first step.
@dhvani_ant (63)
• India
7 Apr 08
wat u did for ur frnd was good.i think there is a communication gap that has created distance between them.bcz any relation requires a good communication.and wen ur married u should at sometimes compromise on certain arugment which will make the other person also to compromise on certain issues.and in a relation i think that both individual should b reminded that they are diff individual wid different point of veiw which at times becomes the soln to the fight and arguments.by communication i mean entirely communication that allowing the person to speak completly and then putting your point in fromt of them.and i beleivet that it should be done calmly.and to be calm just keep one thing in ur mind that the person speaking to u is a person whom you love n trust
@PinayPrincess (554)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I believe they still love each other... There must be a very big problem that tested their love and now they only chose to not talk with each other instead..
But I believe that its not the length of their relationship thats preventing them to discuss about divorce, but its because there is still some love deep inside them..
Because if they dont love each other anymore, then its just so easy to cut the relationship especially if the feeling is mutual..
