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Maybe you just need to give him more time or space to think and to cope up with his feelings for you. He was hurt too for he was always there for you, listening, comforting and loving you. I think now is the time that you understand his feeling for you, it is not easy for a guy to tell his feeling to a best friend knowing the risk that it would happen. So, give him a little more time then talk to him.., it's time that you tell him how you feel about losing a great friend like him. Tell him how you miss his company as a friend and no matter what happens, you will be his friend.

wow that's rough. I am sorry to hear that. This guy that you couldn't get off of your mind, was he someone in your past? Did you two date before? It seems to me that both were hurt, you and the guy who wanted to further the relationship. Try getting in touch with him and ask if you two can talk things out. How long have you been friends with him? Don't wait too long in trying to talk to him because the longer you wait, the more difficult it will be to do, believe me...........I know from experience.

I understand your feeling lilylove9 but, I know he wont go far and has no plan to leave you! you were friend for a long time I'm sure your friendship has been tested by so many trials and different obstacles. Maybe, he just need space, he is hurt too. If he truly cares and loves you, Im sure he is very sad for your rejection but I am also sure he understand your situation! just be there and anytime I'm sure he will show up and ready to be your friend, a friend who will support you anytime!

oh sweetie, i can completely know what you are going through. I had a similar situation years ago and I can tell you that once he gets over the rejection part, the two of you will become best friends again. It might seem a little strange at first, but he's gonna wanna have you in his life whether it's through love or just friends. Just give him some time to get over his hurt as well. It's hard for a man to tell his true feelings, especially when it comes to loving someone so close to him. It could go either way and that is what scares them. Everything should be fine in no time though and if not, then it was meant to be that way. I wish you the best and keep us posted. God bless

compared with those people who have give you the response i am standing at a different situation. as a boy i have waited my ex-girlfriend for more than 4 years after the point she refused me. frankly speaking i don't feel ashamed about it and i always respecting that we will get a good resault. we keep our unnorm friendship hardlly at least for me cause i know i love her nomatter how hard i tryed it didn't work. it looks like she is kept in my hert and never go away.there were always some kind of fantacies come to me if she showed any kind behaver or word. but before i started to write thise i got a undirecttly message she wanted me to give up waitting infact i don't how could i hand this but one thing i am sure i will go through after life need go on!

In my experience it is very dificulkt for a male and female EVER to be just friends. I know many people will disagree with me but there's something so basic to human nature and the laws of attraction between the sexes that I don't think it can ever be. Sooner or later the relationship fom one side will move twoards something deeper, something different, and if that feeling is not mutual someone will get hurt. It's just nature, like night follows day. I am sorry for your pain.

I think its a very natural case. i have also seen in my life that best friebds fall in love. If the other guy whom you can't forget is with you? if not, do you not like this friend as your partner? i think you like him. just take him back. embrace the love he is to give you, and I hope you will also feel the same.

Just give it some time, lilylove. He is just hurt and as a friend you should respect that and give him some time and space. Be sure to let him know some time in the near future what his friendship means to you.

I am sorry but I am not understanding your problem here. Please tellme more and I will try to give you a better response/

hang in there. If he was really your good friend, he'll be back around as a friend again. he just needs some time to get over his hurt from your rejection and is probably feeling a bit awkward too. I'm sure it took a lot for him to get brave enough to come out and tell you how he was feeling and now he is just hiding out. talk to him. I'm sure you can put your freindship back to where it was before.

thats one of my fear and avoidance of friendship when one fell inlove to the other one who can't love back. Fear to lose your friendship and you will miss that moments. There's really a changes after the circumstances.

It says friend can be lovers but lovers mostly cannot be friends again. On your case, it seems that this quotation is not apply. Are you hurt knowing that you loose a friend or its late when you realize that you love Him the same way that he do? Its up to you on how you can cope but take time to treat your self and ease the stress.

i think maybe you can give him a chance. The man who you looking for is around yourself,but you cannot see him. Many songs and stories told us this fact. Why no have a try?