I'm coming............

You have to be at a certain comfort level in your relationship in order to do this. With anyone else I was never really able to do these kinds of things but since I have been with my husband there is no shaming me. He will enjoy it just as you all become more comfortable sexually you will be able to do things that were very awkward for you before. Dont feel pressured you will know when you are ready. Trust me your partner isnt going to laugh at you or anything.

i'm not stalking you! i just like your topics we actually had a joint session last night, sometimes i just dont feel like doing the deed, so we'll have a self pleasuring night... its quite fun.. takes a lil persuasion and a lot of vocalization but once you get there, its fabulous..