17 years old girl was sexualy abuse :(

You cannot tell her the right decision. If you are her friend, simply listen to her and stick by her decision, whatever it may be. She will have to deal with knowing all her life that the child came from a traumatic event if she chooses to keep it. On the other hand, she will have to know she ended a life if she chooses an abortion. It's not a good situation and the decision will not be easy. It's something she needs to think long and hard about. Just assure her you'll still be her friend and be there for her whatever the outcome, and let her know you will not judge her either way. Best wishes to you and your friend.

I don't think i will suggest for abortion, And half of the baby is her, she have to decided carefully, about the future. And living with the consequences.

Hello there princesita, first of all, I would like to offer my deepest regret for the state of your friend whom had been raped and then gotten pregnant due to the process. I truly sympathize with her and could probably felt her hurt. What maniac could do something like that to a lady. I could definitely understand her remorse in not wanting the baby but perhaps you could just advice her that the baby is truly innocent and that is already a part of her. Why not just advice her to give birth to the innocent child and send away for adoption if she really cannot "see" the baby. Who knows, after the baby is born, she might have a change of heart and come to love the baby and take care of him/her? Have a nice day ;)

That is a decision she and her parents need to come up with. Abortion and adoption are options depending on her personal feelings. I personally could not emotionally handle and abortion but would never look down on someone for it. Is she positive it was the rapist who got her pregnant? No offense just asking. She needs to sit down and weigh her options and realize whatever she choses not only effects her but the life inside her and it is a lifetime decision regardless what the choice is.

All you can do is respect her decision. It's a terribly sad situation but she'll have to live with the decision for the rest of her life, what ever she chooses to do, so it's essential that she makes the decision for herself. Is she attending any counselling sessions? I imagine that speaking with someone experienced in dealing with the issues she is no doubt going through would help her.

It is a shame that she got raped. I think if she cannot handle being the mother of this child, I think she should give it up for adoption. It is not the child's fault that it was conceived in this manner and I believe that something good could come out of this horrendous situation.