HomeSchooling??
@frecklelip334 (1668)
United States
April 7, 2008 3:43pm CST
I have really just begun my research on homeschooling, but would like to hear opinions here on it. If you are a parent who homeschools, if you WERE homeschooled, if you agree, or disagree, positive and negative outcomes. I would like to hear your points, pros and cons, and just what you think in general. Thank you for your time.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
7 Apr 08
I homeschooled my children for 2 yrs and in all honesty the ONLY "cons" was the crap I heard from ppl who were against it like my teacher mother and teacher sister ..Homeschooling was the BEST choice I could have made at that time in our lives and it worked out beautifully...I actually Unschooled my children which basically means there was no set times, text etc etc...BUT this was back in Ontario and I know that things are different in the U.S and vary from State to State (NY for example has STRICT homeschooling regulations which I DO NOT agree with at all but once we moved here my kids wanted to go back into public school and give it a try so it wasnt an issue). I think if its somethign you are willing to do - it takes time, determination and being headstrong on several levels - and you have the resources (since you're online you do have them) AND assuming you have given it lots of thought then go for it if you honestly think it'll be best for you and yours....
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@frecklelip334 (1668)
• United States
7 Apr 08
Thank you kindly Raven for responding! I appreciate all you have said, and it all makes sense! I know there are support groups and ways to get with others, and field trips and such, and schools just aren't like they used to be in my opinion. My son just turned 4, and I'm not putting him in preschool. He has been in daycare before, and all we got was sick, and paid more in a month for that then we did for rent! haha. So anyway, my heart is pulling towards homeschool, but I want to do all the research I can so we can make the best decision we feel is right for our family. I know there are going to be several nay-sayers...on here, and within the family or wherever, but you have to do what's in your heart. So I applaud you in your decision you made, despite all the crap from everyone else!! Thank you so much, I may have more questions down the road!!
@paliz81 (35)
• United States
14 May 08
I love homeschooling my kids. I get to be there with them sharing in the learning, learning somethings myself and just the freedom of it. Some days are tough, I won't lie but I really can't imagine having to get them up and out the door. There are some many options out there to use that you can your taylor fit your child and not give them a cookie cutter education. I will say though that I don't think it's for everyone. You really need to know what you can handle too.
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
15 Apr 08
I have four kids, ages 3- almost 9. We've home schooled from the get go, and I couldn't be any happier with my decision. Just this past year we began a transition to unschooling, as your first response already introduced you to. We take it a step farther than just not using a set curriculum, we learn through everything all day long. If the kids are really interested in something I don't have adequate knowledge in, then we will use a textbook, but they go at it their own pace, and can skip around if they choose to. We do a lot of field trips, and outings. They experience a lot of real life that many kids don't get the chance to. They help plan meals, go shopping, balance check book, keep savings accounts, pay bills, creatively come up with ways to make money, and much much more. We also spend a lot of time on communication, both written and spoken, and behavior.
Have you researched the laws in your state? Go straight to your states education website, do not depend on other websites to give you accurate information. After you know what is allowed and not allowed in your state, I would suggest you research different approaches, learning styles, and educational philosophies. This will help you to understand your own style as well as your children's individual styles, and that will prove to be more helpful than any book you can buy in the store. Next, take it slow, learn all you can, and start passing that knowledge on. Baby steps, and remaining calm is the best start anyone can make. If your kids are in a public school now, I would suggest you read up on de-schooling, even if unschooling wouldn't work for you, you and your children will benefit from deschooling. The recommended time is 1 month per 1 year of traditional schooling. So if your child is in third grade, you would take 4 months to deschool...summer months work great for this!
Best wishes to you, and if you've got any more questions, I'd love to help you find the answers.