Friends becoming more plus benefits

Philippines
April 8, 2008 5:08am CST
Well, I've seen a lot of people fall in love at first sight but its mstly just physical. Lately, I've been seeing a lot of my close friends hooking up with each other. Kinda like Chandler and Monica from FRIENDS. SO, it sthe question of: Friends plus benefits Vs Love at First sight? Physical Attraction VS Love through friendship? WHich one is better and which relationship lasts longer?
5 responses
@Al_Bobid (88)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Definitely love through friendship. At least you know him/her already. His/her weakness and the period of adjustment is less... Any suggestions?
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
8 Apr 08
I think starting out as friends first and letting a relationship develop is the way to go. I was friends with my hubby for more than a year before we started dating - before we just hung out after work or would get lunch together...then one night we went to a party and he was sweet and put his arm around me :) the rest is history as the saying goes.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
i think its always better when here is love through frie dship. as a friend you know the person very well. you are friends as there are some points of comfort between you.its always good to be friends plus benefits tahn love at first sight.
• United States
8 Apr 08
Maybe both it depends on the people, some people after going to the next step feel a responsibility to continue, while others really do want the love relationship to continue. I believe you have a better chance when you have more things in commen. This is a very good question. Meeting some one for the first time is exciting and you have a new quest in life, but once these two really know each other over time who's tosay they will or will not stay together. :)
@suganrekh (264)
• India
8 Apr 08
friends plus benefits and love trough friendship is good so that one can understand the partner as friend and then love