Friends becoming more plus benefits
By maxmazing
@maxmazing (5)
Philippines
April 8, 2008 5:08am CST
Well, I've seen a lot of people fall in love at first sight but its mstly just physical. Lately, I've been seeing a lot of my close friends hooking up with each other. Kinda like Chandler and Monica from FRIENDS.
SO, it sthe question of: Friends plus benefits Vs Love at First sight?
Physical Attraction VS Love through friendship?
WHich one is better and which relationship lasts longer?
5 responses
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
8 Apr 08
I think starting out as friends first and letting a relationship develop is the way to go. I was friends with my hubby for more than a year before we started dating - before we just hung out after work or would get lunch together...then one night we went to a party and he was sweet and put his arm around me :) the rest is history as the saying goes.
@AmericanWoman (298)
• United States
8 Apr 08
Maybe both it depends on the people, some people after going to the next step feel a responsibility to continue, while others really do want the love relationship to continue. I believe you have a better chance when you have more things in commen. This is a very good question. Meeting some one for the first time is exciting and you have a new quest in life, but once these two really know each other over time who's tosay they will or will not stay together. :)
@suganrekh (264)
• India
8 Apr 08
friends plus benefits and love trough friendship is good so that one can understand the partner as friend and then love