What would you do to make a child smile?

surviving and thriving childhood is very important - How I wish I could thrive childhood!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
India
April 8, 2008 5:37am CST
[b]Will you go an extra mile to bring a smile, a twinkle in the eyes of a child? [/b] In the time of Jaguar, Land Rover takeovers, Corus and Arcelor mergers, IPLs.....parts of India and many other parts of the world still do not know why in the first place we should ensure pre and post natal care! I feel its most important to survive and thrive childhood and for that reason its important to take care of the mothers and the children. I would like to ask, what would you like to do for a child who needs help? It could be very simple things like buying your quality time for them or it could be buying lunches for some street children.... 'Children are the fuel of life, without them there is no future. A society that does not take care of its children will be left in a state of suffering, of social decay, which can only be reversed the moment we start taking care of our future.'
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@Candee (530)
• India
12 Apr 08
Children are the future and I feel most are most neglected. Or else why is there an ijcreasing number ofcrimes related to children! It's asad state altogether. Personally I try to spend as much as time possible as I hardly cannot afford to spend on them. Great topic!
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
28 Apr 08
I really appreciate you thoughts, candee.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr 08
Your have raised a very valid point, i.e. for a better future of a society in general it is very important that children be brought up and be looked after in manner befitting their childhood. I agree with you that we can devote some of our time to 'teach' them and to impart them sort sort of training. Those children who are underprivileged, should be encouraged to study and we should creat some sort of opportunities and platform for them to help. I would love to spare some of my time to teach them and guide them so that they could become responsible citizens and could add their valuable contribution to the society.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
9 Apr 08
This is a very noble idea. Education is very important for anyone to know the true meaning of living. I just wish you get more time and resources to pursue it. You should chase your dream. Thanks.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
9 Apr 08
Dreams should be chased, I agree with you. I sincerily wish that I could spread education to children, irrespective of their status or economic conditions.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
9 Apr 08
Oh you are such a nice person and I sincerely wish that you get to live your dreams. good luck!
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
28 Apr 08
Since I deal with little kids on a daily basis, I know that nothing is better than an adult's constructive time with them. Lunches for some street children and gifts for a few are not going to solve the issue. We should be able to do something where every little child who is born will be provided nourishment and basic things needed. As a society, spending time with them can be done by people like us...and we can form groups for it....but unless the basic necessities are taken care of, one or two days of bringing a smile to their faces is not going to be of any help. If anyone's interested, I'd like to join a group to start something about this...I know I can't do it alone.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Apr 08
Mimpi, You are right....probably I feel this way because I am already doing the small things that you mentioned (I don't want to going into what I do and sound like bragging here)....in the way that I can manage. If more people did it...then the bigger issue can be tackled.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 May 08
I know what you people go through. I have seen my sisers dodging with no time out. You take care SV.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Apr 08
SV, in pursuit of what would be ideally best for them, I fear we do not lose out on small small things that could bring momentary smile! Buying lunches..playing with them...buying some toys could be very small but can you tell me how many of us do that on regular basis! We should try to implement the smaller (apparently petty towards solving problems)things first and develop the love and compassion. Without this society will not cater to the bigger differences that you are talking of. Thanks.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
8 Apr 08
Dear Mimpi, How are you dear. I think any person who is made of blood and flesh and has a soft little heart beating inside will try to help these children and make them smile. It is so sad that these children are brought to this world and then left out all alone to suffer. No matter what may be the reason but the fact remains that injustice has been done with these children. I have come across such children and sometimes I did buy them some food, but I could see in their empty eyes, a question.......question that was asking God.....why.....why were they so unlucky not to have mother's love and father shade....What can I say dear.......I would be happy to help them , but the question is how many of them can we really help. World is full of such unlucky buds that blossom but are unnoticeable like flowers in woods.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
9 Apr 08
This so miserably true!! I used to feel so sad at times that my heart ached like anything but I couldnot do anything. Then one day, I spent some time with some orphans, just played and sang with them. And it worked wonders. It helped me a lot. I thought why not do it in my own way! DD I feel little little things in life have enormous effect and its both mutual. I wish more and more ppl come forward and do some thing empathetically. Love and hugs.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Apr 08
Mathew, mimpi thinks so many things but whenever she goes to reach out she faces so many hindrances. Still she is trying, trying hard to wade through. But I know one person, Mathew who does and then speaks. I am glad that you are my friend. Thanks.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
Hi mimpi1911! I completely agree with you that "Children are the fuel of life, without them there is no future". And just like our national hero here in the Philippines famously said "Children are the hope of the country." And I do believe that it should start within the family unit. Building their character, molding their values and making them live their life completely with encouragement, love, care, understanding and keeping their spirit alive. I guess, these are just one of the qualities needed for a young mind to grow into a complete and whole person. So, if you're asking me what will I do to make a child smile? I will give him or her my time, I will listen to whatever he or she wants to say or not want to say, I will play with him or her and laugh and cry with him or her. I will go the extra mile just to make him feel loved and special. And I hope with these I coulkd make a difference in his life and contribute in his well being. Just my thoughts dear! Take care and have a nice day! :)
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Apr 08
This is so well said!! I sincerely believe that charity begins at home and the best way to care starts from home. We should take care of the children at home before stepping out and thinking it in a big way. They should be felt cared for and loved and they should feel secure. A secure child will only grow up to be a secure adult. Thanks faith for your precious response.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
Thanks for the kind words mimpi! I guess, I was inspired in responding because you have posted a beautiful discussion too. Just my thoughts. Take care and have a nice day! :)
@Dasari100 (3791)
• Anantapur, India
5 May 08
I make people smile like a child because i know the value of smile and i can't imagine without smile and i always smile and you can find only bright smile on my face and i always make smile opposite person and i have pure honest and good to understand and solve the problems so my words come through my heart so i get pure smile from my heart.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
5 May 08
That's very sweet of you. I feel, empathetic smiles are getting rare these days. We kinda smile on purpose, we fake it all the time. A true smile begets another smile and I have started to respect you more my friend.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
5 May 08
I am glad that you are my friend...
@Dasari100 (3791)
• Anantapur, India
5 May 08
thanks for understanding me and i can tell you because i don't have any fear and i don't have fake words and i know you thought on me in good way and when ever i speak to anyone and i respect their words i know that only. happiness will around us but we need get them and make our friends happy.
@kamit24 (1454)
• India
30 Apr 08
oh that's a really good topic to discuss. i really love to help needy people and childrens are my weakness...most of the time when i saw such childs i use to help them by giving them food stuffs or even candies but i don't like giving them money as now a days most of such childrens take wrong use of it. :)
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 May 08
Thanks for such nice thoughts.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
9 Apr 08
Like the air and the sunshine, I believe the children of the world belong to all of us and must be nurtured and protected. That is the ideal. Of course, in reality it does not always happen. It must ever be the ideal however.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Apr 08
Yes, let's keep our fingers crossed till that day when the 'ideal' becomes 'reality'.
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• India
9 Apr 08
i agree with ever bit of what you have said. children are angels, gods angles. Qualit time is so important with a child. no point in sitting around with the child if there is nothing you can do to bring a smile on the childs face. They are innocent agels. Yes it is very important to keep the mother of the child happy when she is carrying. Happy babies are always from happy mothers.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
14 Apr 08
I really appreciate your viewpoint. Happy children grow up to be happy adults and happy adults are always optimistic. Thanks.
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@Swaana (1205)
• India
9 Apr 08
All kids are just the same. If my child wants something at a particular age, so will be another child who doesnot have parents. To those kids, I will try to get them what they want for. I have been doing it now. We have an adopted son apart from our two kids.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
12 Apr 08
That's great to hear. I think, you are doing what I wanted to do for ages. I hope to adopt very soon. Thanks for your lovely, elevating response.
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• China
9 Apr 08
I will give him or her a mirror,let him or her see themself.Usually they fell very happy and smile.It is so supernatural!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Apr 08
That's very sweet of you.
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• China
10 Apr 08
it is a very hard question for me because i just became a mother! my boy is only 70 days old, and it seems that he doesn't like smiling very much!when he is sleeping he smiles, when his eyes closed he smiles, but when he open his eyes he seldom smiles. i'm so worried about this! i want to do anything that can make him happy and smile.who can tell me what to do?
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
26 Apr 08
Thanx dear. this was a lovely response . I do wish your son smiles, smiles and makes you the happiest.
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@drumbum04 (171)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
You can make a child smile in your own little ways. Someone once said that "If I were to say something to the children of the world, I would not say anything. I would listen." If I were to do something to make a child smile, I will first let that child know that I care. I would listen to that child and take note of what he or she needs. If he or she lacks education, I will go out of my comfort zones and devote my time in teaching him/her things that I know. I will also play with that child and pray for him or her.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
1 May 08
you are a sweet heart and your word are the reflection of who you are. I am glad that you responded.
• Indonesia
30 Apr 08
Dear mimpi, mimpi means dreams in english. With Dreams we can makes the world better.Children are our future.With their hands we build our nations. Without children there will be no next generation. So start to make them happy.Start from begining from our self,right now :)
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
1 May 08
I just loved your response. Such a pure and thoughtful one! Thanks.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
28 Apr 08
Since I deal with little kids on a daily basis, I know that nothing is better than an adult's constructive time with them. Lunches for some street children and gifts for a few are not going to solve the issue. We should be able to do something where every little child who is born will be provided nourishment and basic things needed. As a society, spending time with them can be done by people like us...and we can form groups for it....but unless the basic necessities are taken care of, one or two days of bringing a smile to their faces is not going to be of any help. If anyone's interested, I'd like to join a group to start something about this...I know I can't do it alone.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
i will try my best way to make hem happy. may be i will buy them some books, drss and food. its true india is talking over tata taking over jaguar, but nobody talking over how to make children's life enjotyable.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
9 Apr 08
That's indeed sweet of you subha! I feel, simple simple things make life so beautiful and we need not be doing great work to make them happy and trust me we get happier in the process. Love.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
8 Apr 08
children like them is very very easy to please and thats the wonderful things about them! When I was in college our organization often visits orphanage, we just bring them food, used clothing, bring candies and give it to them in a form of contest where everyone will present a dance number or anything that they can present..Its very wonderful to see them smiling and laughing like they have no depression inside..Its totally rewarding and when its time for byebye moment, its really hard... Its an eye opener for everyone to feel so bless lucky that grow up to have a parents who take care of us!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Apr 08
You are such a nice person and I loved the way you have written it. It shows your true feelings for them. I jut wish we get a little more honest and compassionate with them. Thanks.
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