What do you consider cheating on your Spouse/ boyfriend, girlfriend

i havent got any problem with my man flirting, cybering whatever online. or even hooking up with another girl and sleeping with her. but if he hides it.. lies to me. thats it. lying = cheating.

The way I look at it is this, think aboout your spouse flirting online how would it make you feel if the answer is hurt and upset then yes its cheating. Some people are more tolerant than others, i forgave my partner for cheating he was only messaging women online still hurt like hell though and I would class it as cheating. I dont have a problem with him talking to other women but when it becomes a secret and means he has something to hide thats cheating on me its lieing to me and breaking my trust. I wont tolerate any cheating in our relationship and he now knows this although sadly it took him almost losing all of us me and our kids to make him realise.

What would be considered cheating to me? Hiding it..Sleeping with someone else or cybersexing etc and NOT telling me about it...Bottomline thats what i wont tolerate..DON'T EVER LIE TO ME...I can't stand it and will walk away from anyone for being deceiptful, lying etc etc...I have zero tolerance for that..

YES! YES! YES! internet flirting to me is cheating too. telling people you love them over the internet when you are attached is a big no no for me. its cheating. how can you admire other people and still say you are faithful to your wife, or GF? i will definitely not tolerate that. If i ever caught him cheating on me in every possible means, texting, office flirting, internet flirting.. etc.. we are over. i have no tolerance for such a person who can't seem to know what he wants in life and trying to accumulate girls in his list... there are those who will be faithful and will have attention only for me.. why bother on someone who wastes his time on others and make you believe you are his world? i hate liers.

in infatutaion you tend to fall for that person but still not there. its the start of the good feeling but you are not sure whether you have still reached there or not. its something that makes you happy but not mad in love.

i dont think internet flirting is cheating.. well at some point yeah . but it doesnt show any love . maybe something more than flirting would consider cheating. but sexy talk online isnt much of a cheating.

I consider a physical relationship with someone besides me obviously cheating. I do think there are degrees of emotional cheating too. We all flirt once in a while so I don't necessicarily constitute that as cheating but if I found out my husband was doing this on-line or with someone that I didn't know I would be very hurt. My trust in him would probably be jeporadized because we share almost everything with each other - we are each others best friends. I guess sometimes the circumstances play a big part. Luckily this is something that I don't think I will have worry about for the time being.