Are you a bored housewife?
@axle_shockhits (460)
April 8, 2008 4:01pm CST
Let's be honest folks. how many of us have been married more than 5 years?
How many for more than 10 years?
How many of you think of Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie or the sexy workmate that says hello at the water fountain when making love to your partner?
How many mylotters are prepared to be completely honest?
I, of course, think only of my darling wife while having nuptials. then i get dressed and go home to see her.
[/b]Only kidding!!!!!![b]
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
8 Apr 08
Hello axle_shockhits!:-)
I'll be honest but I also think that none may believe me, so be it!
I do find ladies to be a symbol of beauty, very attractive and probably pleasing to eyes, too, if I choose to see them. But, it's also true that none has been able to excite me in the least as far as physical thing is concerned. I only see my partner, not only while making love but also in my dreams and thoughts. I think, it's just that she is mammoth, LOL! in the sense that she has occupied everything I have; my heart, my mind and my soul!
You are certainly entitled to not believe it!:-)
@novataylor (6570)
• United States
8 Apr 08
I believe you absolutely, Kamran. No doubt whatsoever. You've spoken before about your wife, and you clearly love her beyond measure. What a beautiful thing. The two of you are very blessed.
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@axle_shockhits (460)
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8 Apr 08
that is a beautiful statement.
i wish we all could be as lucky as you.
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@banipenet (283)
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8 Apr 08
:)) Good joke! I am laughing even now!
Now, let succeed to serious things. I am not bored with my husband and i don't think to Brad Pitt when we make love, but Angelina Jolie! Just joking, too!! :)) I am totally there and i see only my husband in my eyes and in my mind when we have nuptials. God bless us to carrying on so!
@axle_shockhits (460)
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8 Apr 08
you have a great marriage. pity the angelina bit was a joke! sounds kinky! lol!
@p3halliwel2005 (3156)
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
I have been married for 16 years with 5 kids. I go to work full time then go home then go to work again.. I used to look at others and they look at me...but never would I break up my family just to have an affair. I guess I just got bored of looking now.
@novataylor (6570)
• United States
8 Apr 08
Our 12th anniversary is on the 20th of this month, axle. And if I have to be completely honest, and of course I always am, I would have to say that I do think of other people sometimes, but I think that is a very natural and normal thing to do, isn't it? lol, sure it is. Now, if you'd asked who I fantasize about, I might be a bit more hesitant to tell you. Maybe not, though, I do tend to tell entirely more than I should here. How many women do you suppose fantasize about you, axle? I mean, besides me.
@axle_shockhits (460)
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8 Apr 08
i would think not many would fantasize about me! only the blind and retarded!
i think of gorrillas' as it stops me 'coming'!
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
Me and my wife have been married for 8 years already. Now I can feel that I have some competition in so far as attention is concern. But I have no complaints,since it is our beloved son. Well, we still enjoy the same love and respect that we have for each other. In fact it has grown stronger when our son was added to our family.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
9 Apr 08
i have to say that i was surprised that it was a guy posting this discussion. it sounded like a woman complaint. you are right tho. marriages and relationships do grow stale. even in the best....fantasy is almost impossible to resist and should not be. I think the key is to recognize that if you are resorting to fantasy more than not then maybe it is time to spice things up in your relationship. Both should be responsible for keeping it all alive and exciting. If that is done then angelina and brad won't be a threat at all....those sorts of fantasys should only enhance and stimulate your relationship.
@austinbell (491)
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9 Apr 08
blimey I don't have time to be bored and btw I have been married to the same person for 42 years
@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
9 Apr 08
Not married so good for me!
I couldn't be a housewife though if I was...too busy with school and working again pretty soon.
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
9 Apr 08
I am being totally honest. I do only think of my partner, sorry to be boring lol. Would like to tell you otherwise but that is the truth. I am happy with him.
@tessah (6617)
• United States
8 Apr 08
ok total honesties hm? ive been with my husband 9 years. just celebrated our anniversary thank you do we both check out other people? sure, of course we do. theres nothing wrong with appreciating a beautiful person right? bored with him? never. if i was bored, id leave. we try to keep things "zesty" in odd little ways if things do get a little routine. think of another during nuptials as you put it? i can barely breath and remember my OWN name, much less think. LOL sides, if he wanted (or i wanted) to involve elsewhere, we are both free to do that as well. so no boredom here!
@niziana77 (5)
• Malaysia
9 Apr 08
Honestly? I've been married more than 13 years now..& I'm only 31!? Of course, when it comes to nuptials noone else comes to my mind but him, he is indeed a passionate lover! I only wish, he'll be more passionate about all the other things that comes along with marriage..When love & hate collides, only time will tell..
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
I have been married for 10 yrs now, and I can say that I am very happy and satisfied with my relationship with my husband. Eventhough we are apart, coz he had to work abroad, we see to it that we talk everyday.