What to do in such a situation?

Maybe in her mind Mylot is like Facebook or Myspace. Or maybe she is confused with Yuwie. She may not know how this site is working. Either way, she has enough friends now to get her going.... I would wait till she responds to any discussion. Maybe she is here for recruiting people to other site...? My problem is with kids. Isn't there age limit on Mylot? I have request from 15 years old boy. It is not right.

well Deepak, as Rozie says its Ryepdx. I have him on my friends list too. You see Deepak I get friends request from many people, none of whom I know personally. They are from across the globe (as it is with everybody here) and just a look at the profile does not really tell you anything about the person. In fact, I never look at the profile while accepting a friend request because I feel it’s just a small step in the coming together of our global community and so till today, I have never denied any such request. After that when I respond to discussions my friends have started, I try to see the type of posts my friends have, respond to them, communicate with them and then maybe over a period of many months, I can form an opinion of that person. There are friends on my list who have approached me for friendship only after we had several long sessions of verbal duel on various topics. We don’t agree on many things, yet that person is on my friends list coz I believe that its an individual’s right to disagree and that should not be a deciding factor in civilized friendship. But I also delete and only those friends who am find have been inactive for many many months. I find that they are unnecessarily crowding my friends list and I would rather have a short but active and quality list of friends. I’ll watch out for Ryepdx, if he remains inactive for sometime more, he would be off my list too.

Hi Deepak, are you getting this first time? I have got those numerous time. i am also in diubt why they just add people. but i don't mind and have added them all.

Hi deepak, When I get any request to add to my Friend's list, I immediately add, I never deny, nor do I go to their profiles to check, who they are or what is their participation in mylot. Till today I did not face any kind of problem so I don't think there is any harm in adding her, but final choice is yours, you think and take your own decision. Have a nice day.

Hi deepak, I think we have the same problem with that. I have some friends request that is almost the same, they don't have even one discussion but they have many friends on the list sometimes just to clear my friends request icon I just approve them and hoping that someday they will post discussion here.

I also think she just wants to increase her friends and she is not at all interested in posting.

i just had the same situation as like you dear friend. someone who has zero points requested me to be her/his friend. in that case, i would like to accept this person but don't turn on the notify yet about her/his discussion. lets see if she/he becomes active in few next days especially in my discussion then i would like to turn on the notify of discussion in her/his profile. please don't get me wrong cause, sometimes, person with zero points after recieved my friend accepted, she/he oftenly sent me any programs many times through PM which i don't like except from person that i know it before and actively in mylot however, the decission is in your hands, dear whether you accept her/his friend request or reject it

Deepak, I have receive such requests many times. What I do is to keep it in hold and wait till the time he actually interacts here. And if he is my kind and does justice to my discussions I will definitely accept him. But if he doesn't then I will wait till a month or so and then deny him altogether.

I received a request from the same person and looked into their profile just this morning....I did not accept them as their friend is over 300 and yet no posts! I find this very suspicious and must say that we need to be careful of who we accept here! ~Heavens~

She got you too? She is going through many friends here. I denied the request when I got it. Just for the simple fact that I know nothing about her writing and posting style. I want to know before I add you if we are going to enhance each others discussions? Is a friendship between us going to bring value to MyLot? Since I couldn't figure any of that out about her, I denied the request.

just add her yaar may be she like to respond to duscussion or she might be intrested n reading only so dont disapooint her and message her to ask about her intentions

When I'm faced with a request like this, I check the person's discussions and see if they have taken the time to respond to people who have commented. If the responses are fun and make for a good discussion, then I will accept. But if there are no, or short "thank you" type responses, I don't accept. I want people on my friends list who are going to add to my experience here, not just use me to up their numbers.

How long has she been here? It should say in her profile down under her interests. I had the same thing happen a little over a week ago. I am holding onto the request until I see more from the myLotian because I just don't have enough proof that they are really here for the long haul or, did they come, like it for a couple days, add some friends to their list and split. They haven't been by for a few days and, they weren't very chatty when they were here so, I will wait a bit longer before I either accept or deny them. But, I had the same questions as you. I didn't even really understand how my requester decided to send me a request when I didn't even see any similar interests. So, I can only tell you what I have done about my perplexing issue. I hope I was a little helpful! Good luck with your decision. It has been over a week since mine and I still haven't decided! LOL!

Hello deepak! I have encountered that one. At first, I don't really check the profile of the members who would want to add me here. I just accept all friend requests. But I read in some of the discussions here that it's too risky and I might get spammed so I now check all the profiles and look for the activity of the person. There are some members who added me here who have some 0 posts and I still accept them. I guess it's really up to you whether to accept them or not.

I seem to get these a lot. I think that some new members joining Mylot are under the disillusion that adding a great number of friends to their lists, boosts their earnings. lol. I tend to leave them on hold for three or four weeks, and check regularly to see if they're active. If not, I deny. Brightest Blessings.

I am not really sure what to tell you to do. I always accept friend requests. I have only had one bad apple so far in the bunch, that just wanted to be my friend, so they could harrass me in private messages. I have also had a couple of them only ask for my friendship so they could spam me in private messages too. It is up to you if you want to take the chance or not.

Hi again, As previously mentioned, I received a request from the same person, just yesterday. I have placed a comment under 'Rozie's' post. After being around here for quite sometime, I've become more careful in the way I do things. I hope all of this information helps.

I suggest you check he registration date.. If she is new then maybe she is adding friends so she gets to know mylot better and start he own discussions.. If you already did that and she registered along time ago then you better not accept the add request...

Obviously, she is not interested in posting discussion what i have in mind is that person is treating this site like the other social networking website like friendster. Me i certainly would not want that person on my list since I am into discussion and not into adding friends for nothing.

It's up to you deepak! Well, me i accept friend request without any doubt or questions...Im just greatful that they invited me as one of there friends and by accepting them.. it shows my appreciation to them.