life is too short to fight over.

I fail to see how it could possibly be worth fighting most of the time. Surely there has to be some truth in the old 'make love not war' thing My husband and I rarely fight, it has always been that way. Sure we do things that make each other mad, but we get mad, we talk about it, deal with and move on. We explain why we were mad and how it could be changed in the future. By listening and understanding to each other we can work through it. I have a friend who is always fighting with her husband. There is always something that she has to complain about because he has done this or done that. This poor man can hardly do a thing right, I don't understand why either of them would want to continue a life like that but they do day in day out, and so do many other people as well!

I feel a little bit fighting is okay, it enhances the love. But constant fighting over things grave and petty is not at all good for a healthy relationship. It makes the bond brittle and when the thin line of decency is crossed I feel the respect goes off in the wind. It's useless to hang on to it with bitterness. However, we should all try our best to keep it going and true love conquers all. Thanks.

its true. actually when we are living we do not understand life is too small to fight over. else it can be taken in friendly way. its short. when one is gone, everything is lost. who can overcome these and think it are great human beings.

No it isnt worth it life is too short to spend it fighting, that said sometimes a fight with my partner is better than bottling it up, we are only a normal couple and we do have the odd row, making up is fun lol! I dont however want to spend my life fighting with him what a waste that would be

I can conpletely relate to this because I am always fightign with my baby daddy and it sickens me. alot of times I just say I dont feel like fighting about this right now and hope that it gets dropped. Needless to say I am so thinking about dumping him its to the point where I hate being around him.