Who loves more in your two?

I think that we all do different things for the people we love. My boyfriend personally doesn't cook at all, so when there is cooking to be done, I do all of it. We clean up after each other all the time, but that's because we can be quite messy and it needs to be cleaned up. Doing these small things doesn't mean that we love eachother more or less. I think that there are other ways to show your love, like for instance, your boyfriend comforts you when you are upset. If he didn't love you, he wouldn't he bother to do that! We are supposed to take care of eachother, and that doesn't always mean feeding, or cleaning up after one another. I hope you realize, that he is just showing you a different way than you show him, and that his way is nor better nor worse of a way to show love.

I'm always confused about that. I agree that when we are in love, we always lose our minds and pay attentions on tiny little things which seem unimportant at all. I know how you feel. You don't really care about how your love pays back, you just want him to feel it, right? And maybe you were also careless about what he did for you. All you two need were understanding and certainty from each other. Just calm down and have a talk with him, I'm sure you can get over it!!!