Career & Single Woman Life: I don't NEED a man, but I do WANT a man.

@aowaow (1516)
Indonesia
April 9, 2008 10:21pm CST
What do you think about this woman, she who can supply herself financially and but still not have a commitment in her late years of age with a man? (Open to man's perspective too)
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@xtedaxcvg (3189)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
She might get lonely in the future when she begins to realize that she doesn't have someone (partner, kids) to enjoy life and grow old with.
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 08
Thank you for responding. I think she will have the feeling of being alone. But some women along with getting older, they can have fixed their thought of being secured financially. Well the emotion of need a woman had been changed from a man to wealth as the substitution. The more she can support herself, the more her interest to man will be fading too. So, what do you think about this?
@xtedaxcvg (3189)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
Well, a partner is not the ultimate goal in life. And one person's goal can always differ from another. In my case, my ultimate goal is to have a legacy in life. And that being said, the best way to achieve that is to have my very own children and grand children. Also, you'll always get that sinking feeling when you wake up in the morning and you find that the person you've been with (who's not committed to you) has other things to do. He may even leave you for a more stable relationship. And no matter what you do I'm sure you always get that lonely feeling.. deep down inside. I could be wrong..
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 08
No, you are not wrong. You are right... But it's everyone's right to choose to have a single life or idle. I'm just curious...
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
10 Apr 08
I like such women.
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 08
What a strong personality.. Interesting. Anyway, thanks for sharing.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
10 Apr 08
i will differ a bit here. i think its true that in life there i srequiremnt for partner, but if a woman wants to live on herself, swhy othrs bother? if she is happy, then its ok.
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 08
This question was asked to a woman who owns the criteria, "Do you need a man?" Yes, it's her right to live in a single life.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Apr 08
Perhaps she has just not yet met the man she could love and live with the restof her life.good for her that she has a career so that just marrying for the sake of someone to take care of her is out of the picture. We women have progressed so much farther than women in my own mother's time. she married more out of need to be taken care of than out of deep love for my dad.He was thirty years her senior and treated her as a third daughter. Now women can take care ofourselves so that marriage is for love and companiohship and not for a caretaker.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 08
You are right about nowadays and past generation womanhood are different. But in my opinion, nowadays womanhood had greater needs of feeding their feminine hunger. Not about financially only, but emotionally and mentally. Thanks for sharing. God bless you.