would you go for you friend's ex gf/bf?

@jarred (177)
Philippines
April 10, 2008 10:36am CST
i need help, i dunno but im starting to have a connection with my friend's ex girlfriend. i know its gonna feel weird and all. but i try not to. i try to avoid but its hard . its like shes pulling me with love and interest. im a type of person that doesnt want my friends to have what i have. like if shes already been kiss by my friend then i wont go for her anymore. help please
11 responses
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
10 Apr 08
The simple fact that this is your friends ex shoudl be enough IMO for you to stay away...thats just snakey IMO
@jarred (177)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
well yeah but everyone has a different point of view. people think its okay, some doesnt. thanks for the comment :) but what if the girl likes me?
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
21 Apr 08
ooo no no no...id never do it cuz it is rong and the only way if i did do this would be if my friend was 110% sure she wouldnt mind...lol
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Apr 08
i think for me, it would be no. i wont go for it. as there can be more complexity. in this process i can lose my freind. but for some it may work.if you do not want, why she is only the driving force?
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
12 Apr 08
There is nothing wrong with that I guess. What matter is you dont deprived yourself from something that will make you happy right? Life is too short to waste time for not doing the things that is worth to do and will make you happy.You might regret it in the future, you know! If you think that she has that feeling too and she is real, like you can trust her then go for it! Past is past and whatever past she has you have to accept it! Kiss dont stay in our body forever, after washing it, its all gone..hahhahahaa
@wnbwnbwnb (426)
• China
12 Apr 08
I do recommend you not to do that! You know,if you do cherish the friendship,then don't touch that girl;however,if you are just so-so,and you do like the girl,then maybe you can consider being with her! Anyway,if I were you,I wouldn't go to that girl!There are so many good girls in this world,why she?
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
As much as possible, I don't want to have a relationship with my friends EX'S because it really doesn't feel right for me. Thanks!
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
10 Apr 08
The fact that you hesitate means you realize that it is wrong. If you really can't resist, ask your friend how he would feel about it. If it bothers him, you have to choose between your friendship with him and this girl. Did you consider the fact that she may be going after you as a way to hurt her ex boyfriend? If that's the case, she's using you. Either way, I think you should STAY AWAY. It is highly unlikely that this girl would be worth losing a friend.
@mefadon3 (296)
• United States
10 Apr 08
I think you should talk to your friend first and see how he views this. If he decides that he does not care, then go for it. If he is against it, then you need to realize that you could be jeopardizing your relationship with a friend and you would have to choose to see which is more important. I got a funny feeling that this girl could be trying to get with you because she knew that you guys were friends. Women are funny like that sometimes.
@Bethygrl (92)
• United States
11 Apr 08
I think you should never go for a friends ex. It causes way too many problems. I had a best friend in high school and she dated my ex boyfriend and our friendship didn't last long after that. If your buddy is ok with it, then I would still be leery but it might be ok if some time had passed. Are you sure she's just not using you to get even with her ex? Women are like that. She may just be using you so you need to watch out for that too. I would just stay away for awhile and then see what happens. Good luck.
@kyra69 (6)
• United States
10 Apr 08
no thats a bad idea! they should be off limits!
• Brunei Darussalam
11 Apr 08
i think in you case maybe it is very difficult...but if you left it go, maybe it will be ok..don't care about you love story with you ex...just think about you future..maybe you will find other people that more love and care about you...