Divorce
By dixie1
@dixie1 (1330)
United States
5 responses
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
12 Apr 08
I am divorced, sometimes it is the only real choice you have. Some marriages were never meant to be.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
11 Apr 08
Oh yes, I think it is a waste of a life time for two people who are not happy to stay together, we get one chance that we know, and life seems to go so quickly so we all should make the most of the gift we have been given, and the best way we can be thankful for this gift is to make the most of our life and be happy...
@kulaskulasito (430)
• United States
11 Apr 08
Depends on the situation. It's really case to case basis. But I won't really bite divorce when it becomes a covenient way to getting out of a relationship for a new one. I don't bite divorce when it becomes an excuse for not working a post-honeymoon stage of marriage. I don't bite divorce when it becomes a prelude to the misfortunes of the kids. And I especially don't bite divorce when the whole sanctity of marriage is waylayed on some "incompatibility" tests whcih should have been done a long time ago.
In extreme cases, when the welfare of both parties are really at stake, I could go for divorce. There are times when relationship, instead of making two people grow, actually make them hostile to each other and that would be for me a strong case for divorce. When relationship is accompanied by violence and serious threats, there goes divorce. And when things cannot be worked out anymore, divorce can be possible.
Well, I know, it's hard to actually determine. But, yes, every marriage headed for divorce must be evaluated individually.