Extra Baggage of A Previous Relationship: What things to consider?

i think its tricky. may be when here are so many r=thing sthat are worrying me, i will not plunge into the new one. its also making that person engaged in that problem of mine. may be if he is ready, then its ok.

When considering or entering a relationship where one has been a single parent i guess you need to consider first that being with him/her or committing with him/her you have accepted the fact that he/she may have kid(s) from his/her past and you should both willing to move on and remember that this is now your relationship past is past and you both are the important persons who will be consider as one. Some calls it package deal since if you love the person take whoever she/he loves because that's part of him/her already. Its just a matter of open communication and understanding.