what is the most silly things you have done when you fall in love?

China
April 11, 2008 2:00am CST
The thing happened to me yesterday. My boyfriend and I watched movie together yesterday evening.After that my boyfriend sent me home and he said he would go home.30 minuts later his hand phone was powered off and he was not at home.Where did he go?I was worried. I look for his recentcall on the line.I found he talked a woman I know who was she but never met her before. I want to cry.Why he cheat me?Why? Then I am sure that he might go to the club which he likes to go. When I entered the club I heard his voice. The club is quite quiet and he was having a drink with a girl. I don't konw what to do.I called the waiter and let him take my boyfriend to me. I still remember his face when he sae me. He explained to me that they are only friends .Should I believe him? Why this kind of things happen to me? He said he was tired because I don't give him any freedom. Am I wrong?
2 responses
sutanhartanto
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 08
i'm sorry that thing happened to you cheating for any reason is not good to do. i don't want to judge your boyfriend, but i'm afraid his cheating represents the degree of his love to you. i don't know....
jinxiang1983
@jinxiang1983 (48)
• China
14 Apr 08
do you think he loves me ? the girl's shadow don't disappear in my mind. i don't know why i always think of the girl. My boyfriend has explained to me he only loves me . But i don't know if i could trust him. but i love him... I am so confused about why I care the girl?
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 08
You will understand after reading that book. John gives a complete scenario for whole details. It's a couple inputs, not only John, but with the help of his wife, Bonnie. John is listed in 1000 Best Men in 21th Century's book.
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 08
Now, you still got a chance to fix the relationship. Since he told what the cause of the cheating, means he still gives you a hope. Don't worry about that woman, she is just his excuses to make you feel of what he felt. But first, do not blame yourself. Never blame on yourself. Stand up and self-introspect, but never do the self-blaming. Read John Gray Ph.D. book, "Man & Venus : On A Date". I hope this is useful to reveal what does a man wants. If you want better resource, you may read his other books. The Original "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", this will reveal completely whole details.