between best friend and boy/girlfriend which one come first
By orangkaya1
@orangkaya1 (18)
Malaysia
April 11, 2008 3:14am CST
there are many reason to choose which one was very important. so for me..best friend come first then a boyfriend ,so how about u. which one important to u. and why???
9 responses
@sandybel20 (413)
• Romania
11 Apr 08
Taking into account that i change boyfriends more often than i change my socks and that my best friend is my sister....i have to say my best friend.
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@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
my bf's also my best friend. he knows me a lot and we both share same interests
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@seiyuh (162)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
My BoyFriend is also my BestFriend. I do have a best friend but there are some stuffs that I just can't share with her. To my BF, I can tell him everything, even my darkest secrets! :D I dunno why I just cannot open up to my other best buddy. =/
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@hiucheekeong (88)
• Malaysia
6 Jul 09
you pick best friend ? what if you best friend also like your boyfriend ? for me, it depend on how good the girl is, is she worth to give out a good friend ? at the sametime, must remmeber that one day both of us will get married too, unless you want to marry your best friend.
@Shorty022794 (9)
• Canada
4 Jul 09
It's hard for me to choose between the two. I have a boyfriend and i love him very much but my best friend is also a guy. Sometimes neither of them takes what i say seriously but i balance the two of them out evenly. I don't think ones more important than the other because they are important in different ways. Because obviously i love my boyfriend because he's amazing and fun and i love my best friend because he will be there whenever a boyfriend is not. But sometimes it's hard having a guy best friend because they joke around a lot and can tend to not take thing seriously. But after all that my best friend still helps me no matter what and i can count on him .
@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
hi. personally th boyfriend should be first. your bestfriend would understand why you do things. she would know how important that guy is too you. however, dont take your best friend for granted. after all, when you dont end up with the guy, you will still come back to your bestfriend. just have a balance in everything.
@hazeldana19 (158)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
for me it's best friends because our best friends gives good advice than boyfriends but that is only based on my experience...
@spencereedon (1)
•
27 Jul 08
yup, there are reasons..but trust me when you get to the point that your boyfriend/girlfriend chose his/her friend over you, then you will know the answer to this. its easy to say that friends stick with you, but along the way they come and go too..and if you found the right person then there's a time to put them in different levels..thanks and be kind to your bf's and gf's because who knows maybe one day you will be the one being dumped for a friend.