Bit of a Problem?!

Have the doctors told you you won't be able to have another? Have they determined why you're having problems? I'm not being harsh, just truly curious and want to give you good advice.

Have you been taking any forms of birth control? After my first child I bled for six months straight. I believe that it was due to the birth control shot that I was receiving. Everytime I questioned the doctors about the shot and my bleeding, they would say "It'll go away with the next shot". After the second shot when it didn't go away I refused to have the third. That was a good decision cause sure enough my bleeding stopped around the time I was due to have my third shot. Since then I have given birth to 3 more children all were born naturally and healthy. So please stay encouraged. God has plans for you and if it's in his will for you to have more children then so be it. If it isn't in his will then it would've never been. God is in complete control and his grace endures all of lifes obstacles. There isn't a doctor, a disease or a situation that is beyond God's control. You will be in my prayers. God bless.

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but for your own health you really need to go ahead and let the doctors figure out exactly what is wrong. It is not normal for these kind of problems to be happening to someone, especially someone as young as you. Most likely when they find the cause it will be able to be fixed. I had a lot of problems after the birth of my second child and wasn't able to have any more children, in fact I ended up having a hysterectomy when I was in my 20's. That was a long time ago though, and medicine has come a long ways since then. Also 2 children was all I really wanted or I would probably have gotten more opinions on it. I know the poking and prodding gets old. I've been through multiple health problems myself this year and I get soooo fed up with it, but for your own sake, put up with it.

Wow, I'm really sorry. I hope your doctors figure out everything ASAP, and I will definately keep you in my prayers.

im really sorry to hear that, what about adoption?

hey im 21. had my first at 16 a month prem, second at 18. at 30wks preg i started bleedin cos my placenta started to break up went into labour, they had to stop it. a few weeks later bub was born 5wks prem, i bleed for about 6 mths and got asked not to have any kids for a few yrs as im only 45kg my body cant handle the strain, my daughter just turned three and about 6mths ago my periods started going normal,,

I can understand that you don't want to deal with the bad news if there is any, but you really should go get more tests done with a different doctor. Come on, if there is something wrong with you that will not fix itself, you need to know. You need to get medical care to insure that you are alright. Maybe it is easy for me to say, but honestly finding out you are unable to have any more kids is not as important as finding out if you are okay. I sincerely hope that you can bring yourself to go get more help. I hope that all is okay with you and turn out okay.

Not to be too personal, but why are you bleeding for six months after having your child? If doctors can't give an explaination of why you are bleeding, I would switch doctors and tend to my health NOW rather than be too concerned about another child later.

I had bleeding problems for 4 years after my first child!! I tried all sorts of medicines (but no prodding pricking). After 4 years I found the right doc who treated my problem and stopped my bleeding. I now have a second child who is two weeks:)

Don't loose hope megs with your problem, just remember that GOD is good whatever problem you are in right now just don't forget to pray always and he will answer all your prayers. Have FAITH in the LORD always and he give you everything. GOD bless you.

Get second, third opinions whatever it takes. I know you are tired of doctors, but in certain situations in life one have to deal with them. Even though it is irritating to you, get good advise and act on that. There is no reason to be downcast. Take medical advise for second child. As of now, take good care of the first child. May god bless you with as many as you want :)