why do people have feel bad about themselve sometimes.

We're all hard on ourselves. I'm my worse critic. It's hard to ignore and sometimes a little self-talk is neccesary for you to be your own cheer leader.

I sometimes feel bad about myself because of the failures ive been true.. it challenges me a lot but im happy coz without it.. i will never see the real me now

You are a very lucky person if you have never felt bad about yourself. I applude you. I have been depressed most all of my life. I have never felt like I could do anything corretly. When I did succeed I felt like someone was going to come alone and find out what a fraud I was. I was braught up being told I was no good and would amount to nothing. I believed them for a long time. I was told I was a bad mother. I beleive them. Well I can tell you I am a good mother and a good provider for my family. I am an RN and became a Supervisor of a Sleep lab before I got to sick to work. So if I could do nothing right I sure went far in my career. hahahaha. I will tell you I do have days I still have daughts. I know it is hard for some people to understand but a lot of people do not beleive in there selves. I know a lot of high powered people who have doughts. I am so glad you do not feel that way.